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You guys told me-- D C always come back--Please advise
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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 658500" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>and, this is exactly why husband and I are frozen. Thank you, all of you, for your advice. I read it to husband and we have talked about this all evening.</p><p></p><p>I want to tell Difficult Child we love him. We do love him. But, he has sent such hateful emails/texts to us and our family. husband and I keep going back to.....IF Difficult Child has changed, he would most likely spell out what he is doing, that he does not want money, that he is okay, that he just wants to share that he loves us.</p><p></p><p>Darn, a recent text to husband was to tell him that Difficult Child searches the paper every day for his dad's obit.</p><p></p><p>This is scary stuff.</p><p></p><p>After a decade+ of abuse, why does <em>I love you, Mom</em> mean anything?</p><p></p><p>Most certainly, I would love to believe it does mean something. But, we have so many years of experience. I still have not texted him back that I love him, too. I DO love him.</p><p></p><p>But....wow....husband and I have scorch scars.</p><p></p><p>Thanks again, because we are certainly processing all of them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 658500, member: 17635"] and, this is exactly why husband and I are frozen. Thank you, all of you, for your advice. I read it to husband and we have talked about this all evening. I want to tell Difficult Child we love him. We do love him. But, he has sent such hateful emails/texts to us and our family. husband and I keep going back to.....IF Difficult Child has changed, he would most likely spell out what he is doing, that he does not want money, that he is okay, that he just wants to share that he loves us. Darn, a recent text to husband was to tell him that Difficult Child searches the paper every day for his dad's obit. This is scary stuff. After a decade+ of abuse, why does [I]I love you, Mom[/I] mean anything? Most certainly, I would love to believe it does mean something. But, we have so many years of experience. I still have not texted him back that I love him, too. I DO love him. But....wow....husband and I have scorch scars. Thanks again, because we are certainly processing all of them. [/QUOTE]
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