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You guys told me-- D C always come back--Please advise
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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 658523" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Darn, i texted back an <em>I love you</em> just before heading to bed and before waking up to more wise words from you. Your words definitely buck me up. </p><p></p><p>husband and I will not go back there again. There is no money for D C and he absolutely cannot step foot inside our door. He does not have keys to the house. During his years of disrespecting us, we had the locks changed at least twice (and I am thinking three times).</p><p></p><p>husband and I agree with you that he is trying to establish some kind of relationship in a very short amount of time, thinking he is laying groundwork for getting $$. I believe you are right, that waiting to text back a few days would have been smarter. And, our guts told us not to respond. But, then my fears that he might harm himself started perculating. I sent that text more to assuage my guilt should he do something drastic. I firmly believe D C is incapable of loving and does not care if his parents say they love him or not. </p><p></p><p>With your help and with all the things husband and I have learned from experience, we will get through this. You most likely will be hearing from me a lot in the next few weeks. Though retired, i work two days a week. husband told me he wants to go to work with me today. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/laugh.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":laugh:" title="laugh :laugh:" data-shortname=":laugh:" /></p><p></p><p>Thanks again. It is priceless to have you in my corner.</p><p></p><p>And, if Difficult Child texts again, I won't respond, at least for a long while. I know I wouldn't answer a phone call.</p><p>Unless Difficult Child ever changes, husband and my lives are much, much, much sweeter without him.</p><p></p><p>SS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 658523, member: 17635"] Darn, i texted back an [I]I love you[/I] just before heading to bed and before waking up to more wise words from you. Your words definitely buck me up. husband and I will not go back there again. There is no money for D C and he absolutely cannot step foot inside our door. He does not have keys to the house. During his years of disrespecting us, we had the locks changed at least twice (and I am thinking three times). husband and I agree with you that he is trying to establish some kind of relationship in a very short amount of time, thinking he is laying groundwork for getting $$. I believe you are right, that waiting to text back a few days would have been smarter. And, our guts told us not to respond. But, then my fears that he might harm himself started perculating. I sent that text more to assuage my guilt should he do something drastic. I firmly believe D C is incapable of loving and does not care if his parents say they love him or not. With your help and with all the things husband and I have learned from experience, we will get through this. You most likely will be hearing from me a lot in the next few weeks. Though retired, i work two days a week. husband told me he wants to go to work with me today. :laugh: Thanks again. It is priceless to have you in my corner. And, if Difficult Child texts again, I won't respond, at least for a long while. I know I wouldn't answer a phone call. Unless Difficult Child ever changes, husband and my lives are much, much, much sweeter without him. SS [/QUOTE]
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