Yesterday he didn't call me ALL DAY!!!! What lead up to that? 36: I'm really stressed out about having to deal with ex. Me: Well, you won in court and now I have other things to worry about and everyone who is divorced has to deal with an ex. It's not that big a deal. But I'm sorry you're feeling stressed. We all have things we worry about, but we have to deal with them anyway. 36: My problems are worse than yours. Me: How do you know? 36: Tell me what they are. Me: (tell him...many are money related but I never tell the kids my problems) 36: My problem is just as bad. You can AT LEAST show compassion. Me: I did. I said "I'm sorry." How about you? 36: I'm sorry. Me: Ok, so we both showed compassion. 36: No, you didn't! What am I supposed to do about your problem. I *said* I was sorry!!!! Me: And so did I, but I can't help you with your ex either. 36: You have no compassion. F**** you. *slam* I tell ya, 36 can talk circles around ya. Really, it didn't even phase me. I hope he doesn't call me for a long time. I lost my mind for a few minutes, thinking of going to MIssouri. Yes, I'd like to see my grandson, but the price is too high.