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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 61464" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Gosh and I wonder why I have social anxiety!!! People just <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />!!! I am so sorry. Allison what you are doing is amazing. </p><p></p><p>You do need to cut yourself some slack. It is really wierd how so many people have no clue what is going on, when you are seeing your child so close to an "episode" or falling apart, and someone is telling you "he's fine" and treating you like you are overreacting!!! It does make you stop and question yourself for a minute!!!</p><p></p><p>Even if your kids are being angels you still can't relax, because when will the shoe drop? So people are still looking at you like why are you so nervous? Lighten up!!!</p><p>They don't get it... they wont they can't. </p><p>Noone would guess K had any issues, people think I am crazy, like I just want her have problems!!! SHe is really good, most times out in public. She has small little things in public, the anxiety etc. </p><p></p><p>The point is all of us here have to deal with this cr@p in some way or another. I found/find it so hard to sociallize at times because of this. With both girls. </p><p></p><p>I have a great doctor. The Zoloft helps, as well the Topamax. At this point I look at my mood and anxiety before I do anything public/social and if I am to stressed as well as the kids, I don't go. I just don't care anymore... </p><p></p><p>Hang in there none of this is fair... I wish we were all normal!!! But then we wouldn't have each other and our wonderful personalities and our beautiful g'sfg!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 61464, member: 3155"] Gosh and I wonder why I have social anxiety!!! People just :censored:!!! I am so sorry. Allison what you are doing is amazing. You do need to cut yourself some slack. It is really wierd how so many people have no clue what is going on, when you are seeing your child so close to an "episode" or falling apart, and someone is telling you "he's fine" and treating you like you are overreacting!!! It does make you stop and question yourself for a minute!!! Even if your kids are being angels you still can't relax, because when will the shoe drop? So people are still looking at you like why are you so nervous? Lighten up!!! They don't get it... they wont they can't. Noone would guess K had any issues, people think I am crazy, like I just want her have problems!!! SHe is really good, most times out in public. She has small little things in public, the anxiety etc. The point is all of us here have to deal with this cr@p in some way or another. I found/find it so hard to sociallize at times because of this. With both girls. I have a great doctor. The Zoloft helps, as well the Topamax. At this point I look at my mood and anxiety before I do anything public/social and if I am to stressed as well as the kids, I don't go. I just don't care anymore... Hang in there none of this is fair... I wish we were all normal!!! But then we wouldn't have each other and our wonderful personalities and our beautiful g'sfg!!! [/QUOTE]
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