Again, thank you all for your input. Elsieshaye, thank you for your input about being enmeshed. I will ponder my YD's relationship to me and my husband (her step-father). Re; her sisters, one lives in the same area as her (we'll call her T2), and she refuses to see her or even talk with her. T2's last contact was actually with YD's guy, and he was nasty to T2 on the phone. Her other sister (we'll call her T1), T1's husband and mother-in-law, and my hubby and I are here in the area from out of town. No contact. If she would just talk to me so that I know she's "okay" I could deal with it, but NO direct contact in two weeks makes me worried. I cannot be sure that she is even getting my emails and texts! I cannot be sure that he is not intercepting them, and responding for her. Another point is that he moved in with her within 6 weeks of meeting her. He had to vacate his apartment. She has resources from my family. They are starting a business, with her resources, but I checked the Sec of State and no such business name is registered, she thinks he registered it. My husband (we'll call him TBoy) has gone to their last known addy twice, and did not see them either time. If she called me and I could hear her voice, and she asked me to back off, OR better yet she saw me and looked me in the eye and told me that, I could handle it. It is the cut off/no contact at all, and dismissal through an email that has me at my wits' end.