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Your house/your rules -How to stop 17 yo from using pot in house?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 705883" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I agree with Susiestar.</p><p></p><p>Given your circumstances, if he will not listen to you, what choice do you have except to call the cops? You say he is on probation. I would inform in writing the probation officer.</p><p> These are good things. Many of our kids do not get this far.</p><p>He has tied your hands.</p><p></p><p>On the one hand you have him:</p><p></p><p>his wanting to dominate you and your home, and meanwhile getting himself in worse trouble.</p><p></p><p>On the other hand you have:</p><p></p><p>Your 4 younger kids, the risk they will be removed from the home, or otherwise damaged. There is also the risk that he is doing more than you know, and putting the family and home at risk, in ways you could not dream of.</p><p></p><p>Your jobs; with that everything you own, including your home.</p><p></p><p>Your values and your ethics; which boils down to everything.</p><p></p><p>What choice do you have? I would call the police. I would in writing and verbally advise the probation officer.</p><p></p><p>I would begin eviction immediately. I wonder if you cannot eject him with 3 day notice because he is doing illegal things?</p><p></p><p>NOLO Press sells books about landlord/tenant law as well as many other legal topics. For some states they have state-specific books. There is a general 50 state book, which I think explains state by state, if there is not a state specific book for your state. I buy these used for just a few dollars plus postage, at half.ebay.com or abebooks.com. Try to get a fairly recent edition.</p><p></p><p>Take care. Keep posting. It helps.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 705883, member: 18958"] I agree with Susiestar. Given your circumstances, if he will not listen to you, what choice do you have except to call the cops? You say he is on probation. I would inform in writing the probation officer. These are good things. Many of our kids do not get this far. He has tied your hands. On the one hand you have him: his wanting to dominate you and your home, and meanwhile getting himself in worse trouble. On the other hand you have: Your 4 younger kids, the risk they will be removed from the home, or otherwise damaged. There is also the risk that he is doing more than you know, and putting the family and home at risk, in ways you could not dream of. Your jobs; with that everything you own, including your home. Your values and your ethics; which boils down to everything. What choice do you have? I would call the police. I would in writing and verbally advise the probation officer. I would begin eviction immediately. I wonder if you cannot eject him with 3 day notice because he is doing illegal things? NOLO Press sells books about landlord/tenant law as well as many other legal topics. For some states they have state-specific books. There is a general 50 state book, which I think explains state by state, if there is not a state specific book for your state. I buy these used for just a few dollars plus postage, at half.ebay.com or abebooks.com. Try to get a fairly recent edition. Take care. Keep posting. It helps. [/QUOTE]
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