Obviously NOT. I am so sick of hearing that. Yeah, it feels good, to some extent, to hear that this particular person doesn't outwardly blame you, but come on, people...I still feel like if I were doing an "ample job" parenting my child, he wouldn't be acting like a maniac. We had to go to the psychiatric today because BT felt he was manic and in crisis last week, and today was the soonest available crisis appointment (scarey). Of course, yesterday was his first good solid day in a week, and he was ok today except for acting like a perfectly controlled little butt-a-cuss...which probably makes us lose credibility with the psychiatric. But that was her line as we left. Gee, thanks. I think?