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17 1/2 year old,needs to leave when 18...help
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<blockquote data-quote="peg2" data-source="post: 121116" data-attributes="member: 2133"><p>Thanks for your continued support and advice. I am keeping a close eye on the $$$$,that's for sure!!!! Anyway, I don't want to use it for anything useless(like a wilderness camp,etc.) that would be a waste. He will probably be going to juvenile court soon as he wouldn't follow our Juvenile Confernece Comm. recomeendations when we had him charged with attmepted assualt. Here, in NJ, he could have done his little comm.ser.hours and write 2 letters of apology, but refused;charges would have been dropped completely. Now. will go to county court, so if I have to pay for a lawyer, some of his $ will be for that(I don't qualify for a Public Defender). Anyway, he is not stupid, could probab. do well as a mechanic or chef, but BiPolar (BP) gets in the way and he won't. I think I will use a bit of the money to get him a room in May, and from then on he will have to work to pay for it himself. I will hold on to most of the money for when he will undoubtedly need it for something legal, or maybe will see the light and want some help! </p><p></p><p>Those of you who "threw" your children out, how do you physically do it if they don't want to leave. I am afraid of revenge, slashing my tires,etc. It is so hard and something I was never had to be!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="peg2, post: 121116, member: 2133"] Thanks for your continued support and advice. I am keeping a close eye on the $$$$,that's for sure!!!! Anyway, I don't want to use it for anything useless(like a wilderness camp,etc.) that would be a waste. He will probably be going to juvenile court soon as he wouldn't follow our Juvenile Confernece Comm. recomeendations when we had him charged with attmepted assualt. Here, in NJ, he could have done his little comm.ser.hours and write 2 letters of apology, but refused;charges would have been dropped completely. Now. will go to county court, so if I have to pay for a lawyer, some of his $ will be for that(I don't qualify for a Public Defender). Anyway, he is not stupid, could probab. do well as a mechanic or chef, but BiPolar (BP) gets in the way and he won't. I think I will use a bit of the money to get him a room in May, and from then on he will have to work to pay for it himself. I will hold on to most of the money for when he will undoubtedly need it for something legal, or maybe will see the light and want some help! Those of you who "threw" your children out, how do you physically do it if they don't want to leave. I am afraid of revenge, slashing my tires,etc. It is so hard and something I was never had to be!!! [/QUOTE]
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