amazeofgrace
A maze of Grace - that about sums it up
Poor difficult child II was so excited and anxious about seeing his Dad (S2BX) that he literally did not sleep last night, and was making himself sick. I got a call from the nurse today about it. He came home very anxious to know when he could see his Dad. I had him call my mother in law, who "said" she did not know when he'd be home exactly, difficult child II started to cry.
My sister in law calls me a few minutes later and tells me S2BX got out yesterday, went home to my mother in law's and went for a walk (he lost his license for 10 years) and came home drunk a few hours later. The
could not even put off his binge long enough to see his sons???? sister in law expressed they are all fed up with him and she agrees the kids should not see him like this.
difficult child I's Inhome therapist came at 5pm and we had a family sessions and I told both difficult child's the situation. difficult child I seemed like he could care less, and difficult child II was angry and crying and so was I. How could he do this>??? I mean he was dry for 90 days he couldn't spare an few hours to see his kids before he went on a binge?!?!
So I decide to call my mother in law (I have not spoken to her in months since she verbally assaulted me in June) but sister in law said S2BX had been very abusive to her last night, and I decided I would call and express concern. She answers and is crying, I ask if she's ok and she says "no, the ambulance is on it's way" I ask if he is breathing, and she says "barely, I have to go, I will call you later".
sister in law called me an hour ago and says S2BX is at ER, he is stable and will be admitted to psychiatric once his blood alcohol comes down.
You know this is what I feared would happen and look this is what is happening, and he wasted no time!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, I am so ANGRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My sister in law calls me a few minutes later and tells me S2BX got out yesterday, went home to my mother in law's and went for a walk (he lost his license for 10 years) and came home drunk a few hours later. The
could not even put off his binge long enough to see his sons???? sister in law expressed they are all fed up with him and she agrees the kids should not see him like this.difficult child I's Inhome therapist came at 5pm and we had a family sessions and I told both difficult child's the situation. difficult child I seemed like he could care less, and difficult child II was angry and crying and so was I. How could he do this>??? I mean he was dry for 90 days he couldn't spare an few hours to see his kids before he went on a binge?!?!
So I decide to call my mother in law (I have not spoken to her in months since she verbally assaulted me in June) but sister in law said S2BX had been very abusive to her last night, and I decided I would call and express concern. She answers and is crying, I ask if she's ok and she says "no, the ambulance is on it's way" I ask if he is breathing, and she says "barely, I have to go, I will call you later".
sister in law called me an hour ago and says S2BX is at ER, he is stable and will be admitted to psychiatric once his blood alcohol comes down.
You know this is what I feared would happen and look this is what is happening, and he wasted no time!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, I am so ANGRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
