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20 yr old son smoking pot and has cut off contact with us
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<blockquote data-quote="mdean61" data-source="post: 556085" data-attributes="member: 15329"><p>I appreciate all the support. My son came home for 15 minutes today. Said he was sorry for what he said and how he left. When we asked about the drug use, it went downhill. He again says how mj is not a drug, he intends to keep using, doesn't see any issue with the fact he is having a kid, and that "we better get used to it". Told him he has to be clean to live at home. He told us the girlfriend's grandparents who own the home told him to leave last night and that he had to apologize to us and work things out. He says he stayed as someone else's house and some girl that he said he just met drove him to our house. He packed a few items of clothing, flipped us off, and left. I feel he only came home for clothing and to be able to tell the girlfriend's parents that he tried to apologize. The girl out front had the car motor running so he had no intentions of staying to talk. I feel it won't be long until he's homeless and out of a job. I did text him and admit I tried emotional blackmail by saying drugs have no place in his son's life and make the changes needed to have a good life for the both of them. He replied that it was pointless to have come home. I did text back that we love him and will no matter what but needs to be clean to come home, all other issues can be worked out. No reply. I guess he hasn't hit rock bottom. I am just scared at what that bottom will be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mdean61, post: 556085, member: 15329"] I appreciate all the support. My son came home for 15 minutes today. Said he was sorry for what he said and how he left. When we asked about the drug use, it went downhill. He again says how mj is not a drug, he intends to keep using, doesn't see any issue with the fact he is having a kid, and that "we better get used to it". Told him he has to be clean to live at home. He told us the girlfriend's grandparents who own the home told him to leave last night and that he had to apologize to us and work things out. He says he stayed as someone else's house and some girl that he said he just met drove him to our house. He packed a few items of clothing, flipped us off, and left. I feel he only came home for clothing and to be able to tell the girlfriend's parents that he tried to apologize. The girl out front had the car motor running so he had no intentions of staying to talk. I feel it won't be long until he's homeless and out of a job. I did text him and admit I tried emotional blackmail by saying drugs have no place in his son's life and make the changes needed to have a good life for the both of them. He replied that it was pointless to have come home. I did text back that we love him and will no matter what but needs to be clean to come home, all other issues can be worked out. No reply. I guess he hasn't hit rock bottom. I am just scared at what that bottom will be. [/QUOTE]
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