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<blockquote data-quote="welcometowitsend" data-source="post: 544881" data-attributes="member: 14356"><p>I wish he had a therapist right now. The therapist I found for him will see be seeing him soon but I certainly don't have anyone that I can email or call at this point. His psychiatrist appointment isn't until August 13 - that's the soonest I could get him in. </p><p></p><p>I understand that porn is a pretty normal thing for boys/men to explore. I am just very concerned about the fact that he was exploring porn that fantasizes about sex with your own sister. I went to the site that he was on and looked around. He had to LOOK for that type of fantasy, it wasn't something that popped up and he just decided to check it out. Not only that but he read episodes 1 through 8 on several different occasions and some of the episodes he has read more than once. </p><p></p><p>He is not surfing incessantly on his laptop - I don't know about his phone but the content of what he is surfing is what disturbs me. That and it's on my dime. This is a free site but we pay for the internet and I'm not supporting that kind of habit. </p><p></p><p>I talked to husband about it and he said that him and his friend used to check out playboy magazines that his friend's dad owned but if they ever came across some articles that were incestuous in nature or of that ilk they would be grossed out and would move on. I get that there are many people out there that look at and read this kind of thing and never act on it but I just don't feel like I can be too careful where my daughter is concerned. And at the age of 16 he is so impressionable (especially with the possibility of asperger's) that I worry about how insidious this kind of thing could be for him. </p><p></p><p>Janet - difficult child said something similar to Corey in that he said he quit watching porn now that he has 'women'. However, that has proven to be not true. </p><p></p><p>Just to make my day better he came home to shower after being at my parents place working. He was grabbing some clean clothes and going 'out' for the night. I caught him stealing a bottle of wine before he left, although it wasn't for him. yah, ok. </p><p></p><p>I did call the mental health hotline and they were helpful with ideas for getting services quickly after he sees psychiatrist but it's really just biding time until August. Going to keep lines of communication open with daughter and try to open up dialogue with difficult child around this. I think the internet is going to be gone and he is going to have to get a phone with no data on it. In the meantime I am definitely going to be putting keystroke spyware on as well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="welcometowitsend, post: 544881, member: 14356"] I wish he had a therapist right now. The therapist I found for him will see be seeing him soon but I certainly don't have anyone that I can email or call at this point. His psychiatrist appointment isn't until August 13 - that's the soonest I could get him in. I understand that porn is a pretty normal thing for boys/men to explore. I am just very concerned about the fact that he was exploring porn that fantasizes about sex with your own sister. I went to the site that he was on and looked around. He had to LOOK for that type of fantasy, it wasn't something that popped up and he just decided to check it out. Not only that but he read episodes 1 through 8 on several different occasions and some of the episodes he has read more than once. He is not surfing incessantly on his laptop - I don't know about his phone but the content of what he is surfing is what disturbs me. That and it's on my dime. This is a free site but we pay for the internet and I'm not supporting that kind of habit. I talked to husband about it and he said that him and his friend used to check out playboy magazines that his friend's dad owned but if they ever came across some articles that were incestuous in nature or of that ilk they would be grossed out and would move on. I get that there are many people out there that look at and read this kind of thing and never act on it but I just don't feel like I can be too careful where my daughter is concerned. And at the age of 16 he is so impressionable (especially with the possibility of asperger's) that I worry about how insidious this kind of thing could be for him. Janet - difficult child said something similar to Corey in that he said he quit watching porn now that he has 'women'. However, that has proven to be not true. Just to make my day better he came home to shower after being at my parents place working. He was grabbing some clean clothes and going 'out' for the night. I caught him stealing a bottle of wine before he left, although it wasn't for him. yah, ok. I did call the mental health hotline and they were helpful with ideas for getting services quickly after he sees psychiatrist but it's really just biding time until August. Going to keep lines of communication open with daughter and try to open up dialogue with difficult child around this. I think the internet is going to be gone and he is going to have to get a phone with no data on it. In the meantime I am definitely going to be putting keystroke spyware on as well. [/QUOTE]
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