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302, medical custody of me???? WTH? does anyone have knowledge?
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 521931" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>Upal, if you worry about this job, you cannot get any better. </p><p>Nothing worthes the sacrifice of your health. Nothing, nothing. Not even your job, not even your husband, nothing. </p><p></p><p>Focus about getting better first and foremost. </p><p>You need to work on therapy, because it's not only a problem of food. What I perceive from you is that the more you want to be in control, the more you lose control. You need to work on this issue, and it won't be solved overnight. </p><p>At the moment, you're too sick to work. So let go this job, let go your house, let go everything but <u>your health</u>. </p><p>Focus about your control issue, then food will get better. Food is the target of your control issue, the more you focus on food, the worse your control issue becomes. </p><p>So hyperfocus on your control issues. </p><p></p><p>I don't know your husband, but from what I understand, he is right to do what he does. You are angry towards him, and it's perfectly understandable. But he does it <strong>for you</strong>, because he doesn't want your death. </p><p>He is not angry because you will lose your job. He is angry because despite you are in danger to die, you are currently focusing only on your job and you continue to go on your death path. </p><p>Your job is, instead, the least of the worries now. </p><p></p><p>And to be perfectly and brutally honest with you, mental institution is better than letting you die. He commits you because he does not want you to die. If your husband didn't care about you, he would leave you to continue to do everything you can to die. He commits you because he does not want you to die. </p><p>And no, it was not an easy decision to take for him. He knows you will be angry and rebel yourself against. He knows that it's not something no one can be happy with. </p><p>Your husband would not commit you if you were not in danger to die. </p><p></p><p></p><p>The only question to conclude is : do you want to be alive or to die ? What is your inner choice between life or death ?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 521931, member: 14306"] Upal, if you worry about this job, you cannot get any better. Nothing worthes the sacrifice of your health. Nothing, nothing. Not even your job, not even your husband, nothing. Focus about getting better first and foremost. You need to work on therapy, because it's not only a problem of food. What I perceive from you is that the more you want to be in control, the more you lose control. You need to work on this issue, and it won't be solved overnight. At the moment, you're too sick to work. So let go this job, let go your house, let go everything but [U]your health[/U]. Focus about your control issue, then food will get better. Food is the target of your control issue, the more you focus on food, the worse your control issue becomes. So hyperfocus on your control issues. I don't know your husband, but from what I understand, he is right to do what he does. You are angry towards him, and it's perfectly understandable. But he does it [B]for you[/B], because he doesn't want your death. He is not angry because you will lose your job. He is angry because despite you are in danger to die, you are currently focusing only on your job and you continue to go on your death path. Your job is, instead, the least of the worries now. And to be perfectly and brutally honest with you, mental institution is better than letting you die. He commits you because he does not want you to die. If your husband didn't care about you, he would leave you to continue to do everything you can to die. He commits you because he does not want you to die. And no, it was not an easy decision to take for him. He knows you will be angry and rebel yourself against. He knows that it's not something no one can be happy with. Your husband would not commit you if you were not in danger to die. The only question to conclude is : do you want to be alive or to die ? What is your inner choice between life or death ? [/QUOTE]
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