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8yr old son has me at wits end please help me
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<blockquote data-quote="nybx28" data-source="post: 461546" data-attributes="member: 12833"><p><strong><strong>(TeDo</strong>)</strong> im not sure of the titles the they had at the moment but one had him draw pictures and told me what ever i do dont use any kind of negative words with him no matter what he has done/about to do unless he really harmed someone which was just about imposable,he would have most of his tantrums while walking my older son to school i was told that he may be trowing tantrums because he didnt want to walk down the blocks i chose and that i should let him choose which way we walked every morning i tried that for 2 weeks with no change so i put my foot down ans told him he had no choice but to go the way i wanted and since then i haven't had much of a problem walking to school and after a few more visits of drawing pictures and getting nowhere i stopped seeing that doctor, the doctor he seen for autistic children only met with him once and flipped trough a test book with questions like is billy on the top of the slide or the bottom i couldn't believe it when she said well i cant to nothing for him he passed the test (how could she know when she flipped through a few pages that he wouldn't stay still for, for about 20 min and only one visit)the speech therapist talked with him and gave him a hearing test and said he was fine but if i wanted i could set up play dates,last year i ended up seeing the first doctor and she had me give a paper to his teacher to fill out about his behavior but the teacher made it seem like nothing was wrong yet every day i would get a complaint so the doctor told me she believed me but the teacher messed up by saying nothing was wrong the doctor told me i wish i could tell you what is wrong with him but i cant figure him out,and that was the last doctor he seen i haven't a clue what kind of help i should be looking for , when he acts up it is so random i tried to whole no candy/junk to see if it was a sugar thing and nope he can act up at any given time for any little thing it could be mid convo and he shuts down its just the oddest thing when he gets like that i just try talking nicely to him but most of the time i get nowhere other times i have to ask him a good 20 times before getting an answer when he gets really bad trowing things slamming doors locking himself in a room and things of that sort i have learned to just pay him no attention and he seems to calm down, all the questions are fine you all seem to ask about all the little things i seem to put in the back of my head</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nybx28, post: 461546, member: 12833"] [B][B](TeDo[/B])[/B] im not sure of the titles the they had at the moment but one had him draw pictures and told me what ever i do dont use any kind of negative words with him no matter what he has done/about to do unless he really harmed someone which was just about imposable,he would have most of his tantrums while walking my older son to school i was told that he may be trowing tantrums because he didnt want to walk down the blocks i chose and that i should let him choose which way we walked every morning i tried that for 2 weeks with no change so i put my foot down ans told him he had no choice but to go the way i wanted and since then i haven't had much of a problem walking to school and after a few more visits of drawing pictures and getting nowhere i stopped seeing that doctor, the doctor he seen for autistic children only met with him once and flipped trough a test book with questions like is billy on the top of the slide or the bottom i couldn't believe it when she said well i cant to nothing for him he passed the test (how could she know when she flipped through a few pages that he wouldn't stay still for, for about 20 min and only one visit)the speech therapist talked with him and gave him a hearing test and said he was fine but if i wanted i could set up play dates,last year i ended up seeing the first doctor and she had me give a paper to his teacher to fill out about his behavior but the teacher made it seem like nothing was wrong yet every day i would get a complaint so the doctor told me she believed me but the teacher messed up by saying nothing was wrong the doctor told me i wish i could tell you what is wrong with him but i cant figure him out,and that was the last doctor he seen i haven't a clue what kind of help i should be looking for , when he acts up it is so random i tried to whole no candy/junk to see if it was a sugar thing and nope he can act up at any given time for any little thing it could be mid convo and he shuts down its just the oddest thing when he gets like that i just try talking nicely to him but most of the time i get nowhere other times i have to ask him a good 20 times before getting an answer when he gets really bad trowing things slamming doors locking himself in a room and things of that sort i have learned to just pay him no attention and he seems to calm down, all the questions are fine you all seem to ask about all the little things i seem to put in the back of my head [/QUOTE]
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