So the kids have been at their dad's all weekend. He is doing well, I still have no contact with him but I listen to how the kids, especially easy child talk to him and can pretty much tell by that. He has his own place, is doing fencing work, with the help of some (sober) friends. I have to leave soon to go pick them up, I am hoping that the transition will go well, but expect especially difficult child to have some issues with it especially since it is Easter and I am sure they ate a boat load of candy. Not sure why, but picking them up has me a little wound up. I was fine dropping them off, but why picking them up:???