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A question about the Scarecrow situation - her message to wee difficult child's gym teacher
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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 314987" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>I would definitely say something to the gym teacher, especially as she's one of wee difficult child's safe people.</p><p></p><p>I wouldn't go into too much detail about the family dynamics, or the fact the Scarecrow is a total whackjob. Just explain that DEX hasn't been a really strong presence in wee difficult child's life, and it's been noticed by family and professionals that Scarecrow has a detrimental effect on difficult child's stability, so you're making all efforts to limit contact, including the passage of information about difficult child to Scarecrow.</p><p></p><p>Your main objective is keeping wee difficult child safe, and that includes cutting off unwitting sources of information, who don't even know that they're being used for that purpose.</p><p></p><p>I have a similar situation. Our neighbour is a hair stylist and my difficult child's egg donor is one of her clients. ED was pumping neighbour for information, so we had to tell her that ED is to be told nothing about difficult child (this by court order, as she's considered a danger to him).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 314987, member: 3907"] I would definitely say something to the gym teacher, especially as she's one of wee difficult child's safe people. I wouldn't go into too much detail about the family dynamics, or the fact the Scarecrow is a total whackjob. Just explain that DEX hasn't been a really strong presence in wee difficult child's life, and it's been noticed by family and professionals that Scarecrow has a detrimental effect on difficult child's stability, so you're making all efforts to limit contact, including the passage of information about difficult child to Scarecrow. Your main objective is keeping wee difficult child safe, and that includes cutting off unwitting sources of information, who don't even know that they're being used for that purpose. I have a similar situation. Our neighbour is a hair stylist and my difficult child's egg donor is one of her clients. ED was pumping neighbour for information, so we had to tell her that ED is to be told nothing about difficult child (this by court order, as she's considered a danger to him). [/QUOTE]
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