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A weird night and Jumper and J. are over
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 488582" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, UPDATE! He's coming over tonight to talk. And he said he cried all the way home. And he texted Jumper that she was the only person he had ever cared about or ever would care about. But he's so afraid she'll leave him, he tries to leave her first. If Jumper isn't getting tired of this, *I* am...lol. On the serious side, he talked about suicide again and that his mother isn't speaking to him (I thought things were better). But on thanksgiving Day, I had to do the driving and he didn't come here until 4:00. I wasn't going to drive him back at night and Tom has his eye issues...he can't see at night...so he slept on the downstairs sofa. Now Stepmother won't speak to him (and when she doesn't speak to him, she doesn't SPEAK to him) because he stayed overnight. I drove him home in the morning. I'm afraid to drive on the country roads at night too. It's way too dark and I can't see as well as I used to be able to see. And all she would have had to have done is let her use her car...they have three cars and he used to have the use of one and he paid the insurance on it, but she took the truck from him when he started dating Jumper. If he had had his own transportation, he would have gone home. </p><p></p><p>The boy talks about suicide so much it scares me. And his parents know he is suicidal and his stepmother, who he calls his mother, doesn't help things. I sort of hope this talk results in a breakup, but it will be so hard for Jumper if it does. She was texting him all night...she is too attached for a fifteen year old, but there really is nothing I can do about it that won't make things worse. And, yes, for those who wonder, they are still both virgins. You'll just have to take my word on that. </p><p></p><p>Jumper is my fourth teen and I know better than to try to insist they break up for good. That will only lead to more problems (for those of you with younger kids who think we should just put our foot down).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 488582, member: 1550"] Well, UPDATE! He's coming over tonight to talk. And he said he cried all the way home. And he texted Jumper that she was the only person he had ever cared about or ever would care about. But he's so afraid she'll leave him, he tries to leave her first. If Jumper isn't getting tired of this, *I* am...lol. On the serious side, he talked about suicide again and that his mother isn't speaking to him (I thought things were better). But on thanksgiving Day, I had to do the driving and he didn't come here until 4:00. I wasn't going to drive him back at night and Tom has his eye issues...he can't see at night...so he slept on the downstairs sofa. Now Stepmother won't speak to him (and when she doesn't speak to him, she doesn't SPEAK to him) because he stayed overnight. I drove him home in the morning. I'm afraid to drive on the country roads at night too. It's way too dark and I can't see as well as I used to be able to see. And all she would have had to have done is let her use her car...they have three cars and he used to have the use of one and he paid the insurance on it, but she took the truck from him when he started dating Jumper. If he had had his own transportation, he would have gone home. The boy talks about suicide so much it scares me. And his parents know he is suicidal and his stepmother, who he calls his mother, doesn't help things. I sort of hope this talk results in a breakup, but it will be so hard for Jumper if it does. She was texting him all night...she is too attached for a fifteen year old, but there really is nothing I can do about it that won't make things worse. And, yes, for those who wonder, they are still both virgins. You'll just have to take my word on that. Jumper is my fourth teen and I know better than to try to insist they break up for good. That will only lead to more problems (for those of you with younger kids who think we should just put our foot down). [/QUOTE]
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