The other thread was getting a bit long so I thought I'd start a new one. Thanks to all of the adoptees who weighed in. I just can't know what it's like for my son and your thoughts are appreciated. It's making me sad though because I'm not sure what else I can do to help him. He won't talk to anyone, won't read, won't search (we've offered). This is really his journey and although we are absolutely along for the ride, we're not driving and we can't. It's not respectful of him. I just wish he could communicate...at this point I don't even think he knows what is wrong. Blah. I know the next couple of days will be quiet around here but if anyone has any advice I'd gladly take it! P.S. Hubby has been reading along with me and says to say thanks to all of you warrior parents!