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Adoptive difficult child Lost Job and is Moving in with Bio Mom and wad kicked
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 611385" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>With the backstory of bio. mom's history, I say let him go to see for himself how dysfunctional she is and how she is not able to help him, which is what he wants. He may also thinks it hurts you to do this, which it shouldn't, since most kids are curious about their roots if they don't know t heir bio. parents. In the age of the internet, most do search and find...better now than later. It doesn't sound like bio. mom can do much other than sate his curiosity. And perhaps it is better than him destroying your own peace and happiness or being out on the street.</p><p></p><p>Once they are 18, they are able to make their own choices legally and we can't stop them and shouldn't bribe them to do so...I mean...it doesn't work. The answer to his problems are within himself and only he can fix them. Focus on helping YOU have a good life with those in your orbit who love and appreciate you and can enrich you!</p><p></p><p>"Wherever you go, there you are." Hugs!!!!! I know it is difficult.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 611385, member: 1550"] With the backstory of bio. mom's history, I say let him go to see for himself how dysfunctional she is and how she is not able to help him, which is what he wants. He may also thinks it hurts you to do this, which it shouldn't, since most kids are curious about their roots if they don't know t heir bio. parents. In the age of the internet, most do search and find...better now than later. It doesn't sound like bio. mom can do much other than sate his curiosity. And perhaps it is better than him destroying your own peace and happiness or being out on the street. Once they are 18, they are able to make their own choices legally and we can't stop them and shouldn't bribe them to do so...I mean...it doesn't work. The answer to his problems are within himself and only he can fix them. Focus on helping YOU have a good life with those in your orbit who love and appreciate you and can enrich you! "Wherever you go, there you are." Hugs!!!!! I know it is difficult. [/QUOTE]
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