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Adoptive difficult child Lost Job and is Moving in with Bio Mom and wad kicked
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<blockquote data-quote="scent of cedar" data-source="post: 611701" data-attributes="member: 1721"><p>Stressbunny, you are right to refuse to store the clothing. I meant that it literally never occurred to me to tell either of our children "no" ~ about so many things.</p><p></p><p>I wish I had.</p><p></p><p>I just couldn't see that they were making choices, that they were fully aware of the wrongness in what they wanted or were doing. I was always so sure believing in the good that I knew was in them would help them come back to who they were meant to be. I could not acknowledge what was really happening, and so, I could not react appropriately.</p><p></p><p>As I continue with the process I am going through now, the day will come when I too will believe that the peace, beauty, and order husband and I create in the spaces where we live is not something to be sacrificed ~ on any level ~ for the sakes of our adult children. At this point? We are storing things for both our almost forty year old kids.</p><p></p><p>I was not criticizing you, Stressy.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scent of cedar, post: 611701, member: 1721"] Stressbunny, you are right to refuse to store the clothing. I meant that it literally never occurred to me to tell either of our children "no" ~ about so many things. I wish I had. I just couldn't see that they were making choices, that they were fully aware of the wrongness in what they wanted or were doing. I was always so sure believing in the good that I knew was in them would help them come back to who they were meant to be. I could not acknowledge what was really happening, and so, I could not react appropriately. As I continue with the process I am going through now, the day will come when I too will believe that the peace, beauty, and order husband and I create in the spaces where we live is not something to be sacrificed ~ on any level ~ for the sakes of our adult children. At this point? We are storing things for both our almost forty year old kids. I was not criticizing you, Stressy. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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