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Adoptive difficult child Lost Job and is Moving in with Bio Mom and wad kicked
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<blockquote data-quote="scent of cedar" data-source="post: 611930" data-attributes="member: 1721"><p>I meant that I intend to get to a better, saner, healthier place with the way I rationalize and excuse the behaviors of my own children, Stressy. I like the way you see the situation: For you, your son's inappropriate behaviors are just that ~ his inappropriate behaviors. You are choosing to remain healthy yourself, rather than enter into a relationship of threat and fear and compromise with your child. There are actions and behaviors that are simply unacceptable, as those same behaviors would be unacceptable from anyone else in your life. You don't make excuses for why your son is doing what he is doing; you don't compromise your own value system to allow for his changed value system.</p><p></p><p>I like that. </p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scent of cedar, post: 611930, member: 1721"] I meant that I intend to get to a better, saner, healthier place with the way I rationalize and excuse the behaviors of my own children, Stressy. I like the way you see the situation: For you, your son's inappropriate behaviors are just that ~ his inappropriate behaviors. You are choosing to remain healthy yourself, rather than enter into a relationship of threat and fear and compromise with your child. There are actions and behaviors that are simply unacceptable, as those same behaviors would be unacceptable from anyone else in your life. You don't make excuses for why your son is doing what he is doing; you don't compromise your own value system to allow for his changed value system. I like that. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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