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<blockquote data-quote="mrscatinthehat" data-source="post: 138112" data-attributes="member: 2063"><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Adoptive moms I have a question for you. Something happened today that really upset me and has when this type of thing has happened on other occaisions. Maybe I shouldnt be so sensitive but I had to ask this of some of you.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Doesnt it bother you (or maybe it doesnt happen to you) when service providers refer to you as the adoptive/step mother and the other woman as their mom? We got some paper work today and it listed me as adoptive mom and the egg donor as mother. Well # one I wanted to know why she was even on the paperwork. The JCO explained that was just informational. Well it isnt helpful. Not to difficult child not to us. I mean I know I am his mom that is not in doubt. But why keep throwing her information at a child that cant handle it. I was disregarded on this and it made me so mad.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">At this time I let it go (as if I had a choice). </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">I mean anyone can create a child but not everyone can be a parent. We all know this but for some reason these folks just dont get it. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Her name should not be included in reports anymore with difficult child 2 as she has no rights there at all. If they want to include her information in something do it in the histories that I know they have. That is more than plenty.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Does this happen to others or is this just one of my perks? How do you all handle it?</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Beth</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mrscatinthehat, post: 138112, member: 2063"] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]Adoptive moms I have a question for you. Something happened today that really upset me and has when this type of thing has happened on other occaisions. Maybe I shouldnt be so sensitive but I had to ask this of some of you.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]Doesnt it bother you (or maybe it doesnt happen to you) when service providers refer to you as the adoptive/step mother and the other woman as their mom? We got some paper work today and it listed me as adoptive mom and the egg donor as mother. Well # one I wanted to know why she was even on the paperwork. The JCO explained that was just informational. Well it isnt helpful. Not to difficult child not to us. I mean I know I am his mom that is not in doubt. But why keep throwing her information at a child that cant handle it. I was disregarded on this and it made me so mad.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]At this time I let it go (as if I had a choice). [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]I mean anyone can create a child but not everyone can be a parent. We all know this but for some reason these folks just dont get it. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]Her name should not be included in reports anymore with difficult child 2 as she has no rights there at all. If they want to include her information in something do it in the histories that I know they have. That is more than plenty.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]Does this happen to others or is this just one of my perks? How do you all handle it?[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]Beth[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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