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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 86683" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Carolanne,</p><p></p><p>As I understand your post, you DID teach your daughter it is unacceptable to treat your spouse abusively. You got HELP. You kicked him out until HE got help. It does no one any good to pretend that the bad things didn't happen, but it does even less good to keep beating yourself up over them.</p><p></p><p>When you knew you could do better, you did. Now you need to realize that continuing to beat yourself up is not healthy. You did the best you could. Making your husband leave, and then working to repair the relationship when you saw he got help, that is courage. </p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 86683, member: 1233"] Carolanne, As I understand your post, you DID teach your daughter it is unacceptable to treat your spouse abusively. You got HELP. You kicked him out until HE got help. It does no one any good to pretend that the bad things didn't happen, but it does even less good to keep beating yourself up over them. When you knew you could do better, you did. Now you need to realize that continuing to beat yourself up is not healthy. You did the best you could. Making your husband leave, and then working to repair the relationship when you saw he got help, that is courage. Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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