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<blockquote data-quote="barbie" data-source="post: 137354" data-attributes="member: 4842"><p>You know what I dont get parents like that. Here I fight to keep my kids in line and somehow Johnny smartass comes along and slaps or bites one of mine and I gotta be oh okay, but if roles were reversed Id be expected to discipline them. The system is corrupt, and by system I mean society in general, not directed towards any system. In school, if your kid acts crazy, they blame you for not keeping the kid in line, but wait til you so much as spank them and CPS is knocking at your door, How does that work? Im damned if I DONT but Im damned if I DO too? </p><p></p><p>Sad thing is, the people who have kids "who can do no wrong" are the ones who see a pregnant lady in a bus standing and wont give the seat to her. These are the people who raise these annoyingnly, self-righteous, monsters who have this sense of entitlement. Who dont know how to say excuse me, please, thank you, may I. They feel they deserve everything, and they dont. If I have to work to earn my money to pay for the things I have, my kids have to do the same thing, or else I feel they would be sadly prepared to handle life when it comes their turn. </p><p></p><p>Life and psychology dictates, that we will do less desirable things to get a desirable reward. Work to get a paycheck to have money. Clean our rooms to go out. Pay our electric bill (less desirable), to have lights and TV(desirable). We would all do well to teach our kids this, and its one thing if the kids have ADHD, cause damn it takes a minute to teach a lesson and less than that to forget the same, and when your kid cant pay attention long enough to learn it, but not to try I think is punishable. I seriously think they should give kids, like they give em sexual education,-- parent education, some sort of test should be required to procreate. LOL. Cause I sure have seen some parents, like your sister, who need to teach, something they obviously havent learned. Just my opinion though.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="barbie, post: 137354, member: 4842"] You know what I dont get parents like that. Here I fight to keep my kids in line and somehow Johnny smartass comes along and slaps or bites one of mine and I gotta be oh okay, but if roles were reversed Id be expected to discipline them. The system is corrupt, and by system I mean society in general, not directed towards any system. In school, if your kid acts crazy, they blame you for not keeping the kid in line, but wait til you so much as spank them and CPS is knocking at your door, How does that work? Im damned if I DONT but Im damned if I DO too? Sad thing is, the people who have kids "who can do no wrong" are the ones who see a pregnant lady in a bus standing and wont give the seat to her. These are the people who raise these annoyingnly, self-righteous, monsters who have this sense of entitlement. Who dont know how to say excuse me, please, thank you, may I. They feel they deserve everything, and they dont. If I have to work to earn my money to pay for the things I have, my kids have to do the same thing, or else I feel they would be sadly prepared to handle life when it comes their turn. Life and psychology dictates, that we will do less desirable things to get a desirable reward. Work to get a paycheck to have money. Clean our rooms to go out. Pay our electric bill (less desirable), to have lights and TV(desirable). We would all do well to teach our kids this, and its one thing if the kids have ADHD, cause damn it takes a minute to teach a lesson and less than that to forget the same, and when your kid cant pay attention long enough to learn it, but not to try I think is punishable. I seriously think they should give kids, like they give em sexual education,-- parent education, some sort of test should be required to procreate. LOL. Cause I sure have seen some parents, like your sister, who need to teach, something they obviously havent learned. Just my opinion though. [/QUOTE]
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