Hello all:
I need a better perspective on this.
My Daughter(difficult child 1) has been friends off and on with the Shy for over 10 years. It has never been a great relationship. As a matter of fact, the 4th grade teacher told me that Shy should never be in the same class as my daughter. Shy is overbearing mean and a distraction to my nice quiet girl.
So now they are in high school. shay has joined lots of things the year AFTER my daughter did---cheerleading, chorus, track(even does the same events). The track kids say my daughter woudl be even better if Shy wasn't around. The only time my daughter drank, shay was there. Shay lied; i read the text messages from my daughters cell phone...I coudl go on...shay i does tons of things...drinks, smokes, has lots of sex, lies Occupational Therapist (OT) her mom, is late for school, disrespects her mom, spreads rumors about my son, etc. BUT IF YOU MET HER YOU MIGHT LIKE HER, that kind of sweet sneaky girl.
The other thing is my daughter Learning Disability (LD)'s and stuff make it hard for her. and my daughter doesn't get to say anything when this girl is around. Shy is just a little more popular. What ever:
Any wasy, i was just convincing my daughter to see this girl for who she is..... and i also took a hard line regarding time with her.
Oh me and her mom were friend for a while until I realised we were just a little different...........thats another story.
Anyway, tomorrow she is moving in to the house next to mine. Now back in the day she would have called me right away...... not anymore.
I do not know how to react....................... how to handle my girl........etc.
Words of encouragement? advice....
I need a better perspective on this.
My Daughter(difficult child 1) has been friends off and on with the Shy for over 10 years. It has never been a great relationship. As a matter of fact, the 4th grade teacher told me that Shy should never be in the same class as my daughter. Shy is overbearing mean and a distraction to my nice quiet girl.
So now they are in high school. shay has joined lots of things the year AFTER my daughter did---cheerleading, chorus, track(even does the same events). The track kids say my daughter woudl be even better if Shy wasn't around. The only time my daughter drank, shay was there. Shay lied; i read the text messages from my daughters cell phone...I coudl go on...shay i does tons of things...drinks, smokes, has lots of sex, lies Occupational Therapist (OT) her mom, is late for school, disrespects her mom, spreads rumors about my son, etc. BUT IF YOU MET HER YOU MIGHT LIKE HER, that kind of sweet sneaky girl.
The other thing is my daughter Learning Disability (LD)'s and stuff make it hard for her. and my daughter doesn't get to say anything when this girl is around. Shy is just a little more popular. What ever:
Any wasy, i was just convincing my daughter to see this girl for who she is..... and i also took a hard line regarding time with her.
Oh me and her mom were friend for a while until I realised we were just a little different...........thats another story.
Anyway, tomorrow she is moving in to the house next to mine. Now back in the day she would have called me right away...... not anymore.
I do not know how to react....................... how to handle my girl........etc.
Words of encouragement? advice....