DS is officially an Aspie. I have done a ton of reading since then and things are so much better. Since we have understood his communication problem for what it is rather than being oppositional. Yeah! Now at our last appointment the dr discussed not having violent video games due to the empathy issue. I'm already pretty conservative with what he allowed, but it sounds like she prefers no shooting at all. Now the kid has had trouble, the last major meltdown he threw a chair, but it is nothing like I have read about. What have those of you with Asperger's kids, what have have you done in this area?