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<blockquote data-quote="Calamity Jane" data-source="post: 580755" data-attributes="member: 13882"><p>Ugh, that's just disgusting, PG. I don't know the technical term for what difficult child encountered, whether it's considered "abuse" or not, but that's just semantics anyway. Even if the only thing she experienced was waking up and seeing him playing with himself in her room - that's enough to cause trauma in my opinion. That's her "grandpa" figure, for crying out loud.</p><p>Based on what your nieces said, and the fact that you say he is (was) a sex addict, then I believe your difficult child. Now, why she said you sent her up there to be homeless, and why she wanted to continue to see them if abuse began in elementary school, I'm not qualified to even guess. If he did abuse her in elementary school, perhaps she didn't know how to react, whether she'd be believed, if she would get in trouble - who knows what he could've told her to scare her. Maybe she thought that the attention he was giving her made her "special" and unique even though she probably felt shame. Abusers of children are phenomenal manipulators of young minds.</p><p>That man is vile - also trying to cop a feel at the beach. Sick, sick sick. I would punch his lights out. So sorry about difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Calamity Jane, post: 580755, member: 13882"] Ugh, that's just disgusting, PG. I don't know the technical term for what difficult child encountered, whether it's considered "abuse" or not, but that's just semantics anyway. Even if the only thing she experienced was waking up and seeing him playing with himself in her room - that's enough to cause trauma in my opinion. That's her "grandpa" figure, for crying out loud. Based on what your nieces said, and the fact that you say he is (was) a sex addict, then I believe your difficult child. Now, why she said you sent her up there to be homeless, and why she wanted to continue to see them if abuse began in elementary school, I'm not qualified to even guess. If he did abuse her in elementary school, perhaps she didn't know how to react, whether she'd be believed, if she would get in trouble - who knows what he could've told her to scare her. Maybe she thought that the attention he was giving her made her "special" and unique even though she probably felt shame. Abusers of children are phenomenal manipulators of young minds. That man is vile - also trying to cop a feel at the beach. Sick, sick sick. I would punch his lights out. So sorry about difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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