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Allegations of abuse?
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 580758" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>1) the abuser often pours on the "affection", trinkets and treats, which adds to the confusion. The kid wants THOSE things, but has to do other stuff to get them</p><p>2) threats - from harm to the child, to harm to others they love</p><p>3) timelines can really get messed up in the brain of a kid who goes through this, as can exact events. The impact of a "minor" situation can be major.</p><p>4) Memories can be blocked out so well that even if a similar thing happens later with the same person, "the past" is locked away and not recalled.</p><p></p><p>Not that I can tell you if she is true or not true or partially true... but I can tell you that there are lots of reasons why you would not have known at the time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 580758, member: 11791"] 1) the abuser often pours on the "affection", trinkets and treats, which adds to the confusion. The kid wants THOSE things, but has to do other stuff to get them 2) threats - from harm to the child, to harm to others they love 3) timelines can really get messed up in the brain of a kid who goes through this, as can exact events. The impact of a "minor" situation can be major. 4) Memories can be blocked out so well that even if a similar thing happens later with the same person, "the past" is locked away and not recalled. Not that I can tell you if she is true or not true or partially true... but I can tell you that there are lots of reasons why you would not have known at the time. [/QUOTE]
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