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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 251196" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>How is she? </p><p>We are lucky in that K never wants to just stay home. Either she is completely unstable or truly sick. </p><p></p><p>But I would have not fed into it either. I would have done the, "Oh honey I am so sorry you are sick" then the Mommy doesn't want to get to sick and tuck her in, set her up in bed with juice etc. Close the blinds all of that just like Susie said. </p><p>Later do the calm and minimal play, *because she is sick*. </p><p>"You want her to get better, and you are so worried about her!"</p><p>I wouldn't argue, you may even pretend to call the Doctor and tell her this is what the doctor said to do.... tee-hee.</p><p></p><p>I would bring this up with the therapist, it could be Anxiety, K gets to where she doesn't want to leave the house on weekends when she is very anxious. </p><p>It could be a bit of all of the stresses over the past few months and her looking for you to make it better, and a bit of her trying to manipulate you.</p><p>We all know our sweet little girls love to work us Moms.</p><p></p><p>it is nice to see you back, sorry Tink is struggling.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 251196, member: 3155"] How is she? We are lucky in that K never wants to just stay home. Either she is completely unstable or truly sick. But I would have not fed into it either. I would have done the, "Oh honey I am so sorry you are sick" then the Mommy doesn't want to get to sick and tuck her in, set her up in bed with juice etc. Close the blinds all of that just like Susie said. Later do the calm and minimal play, *because she is sick*. "You want her to get better, and you are so worried about her!" I wouldn't argue, you may even pretend to call the Doctor and tell her this is what the doctor said to do.... tee-hee. I would bring this up with the therapist, it could be Anxiety, K gets to where she doesn't want to leave the house on weekends when she is very anxious. It could be a bit of all of the stresses over the past few months and her looking for you to make it better, and a bit of her trying to manipulate you. We all know our sweet little girls love to work us Moms. it is nice to see you back, sorry Tink is struggling. [/QUOTE]
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