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<blockquote data-quote="SONS GONE WILD" data-source="post: 140459" data-attributes="member: 4725"><p>Mikey, thanks for your comments. He sometimes throws out 'if you don't let me . . . then I won't go to rehab.' Then when I don't back down, he's like, I know, I'm going to go, its just I had a bad day or da da da. Driving me nuts! So far he is going willingly to rehab, and husband and I are trying to be tough.</p><p> </p><p>Like last night, he somehow feels responsible for 2 friends who have "no where to go" and thinks we should let them sleep here. We did for 2 nights, then he snuck them in a 3rd night, so last night, I felt AWFUL sending them out at 12 midnight, as we sat here in our cozy house getting ready to get in our warm beds - and he left with them! I imagine he talked his girlfriend and her roommates into letting them stay at their place, but I wish he could understand that he is not responsible for these people! Maybe he just needs constant companionship, I don't know, but the girl is going to rehab for heroin, and who knows what else, and the boy, I don't know besides a recent arrest for marijuana. I just can't help feeling bad for them, then realize, okay, they are not my responsibility. But if they were not in the picture, he could be home sleeping in his safe house, in his warm bed. I wish they'd move away, like they keep promising. husband told him this was his 'own doing' since the night he snuck them in to sleep, husband smelled marijuana coming from his room - so he and his friends have to suffer the consequences - thus the no sleepover privileges.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SONS GONE WILD, post: 140459, member: 4725"] Mikey, thanks for your comments. He sometimes throws out 'if you don't let me . . . then I won't go to rehab.' Then when I don't back down, he's like, I know, I'm going to go, its just I had a bad day or da da da. Driving me nuts! So far he is going willingly to rehab, and husband and I are trying to be tough. Like last night, he somehow feels responsible for 2 friends who have "no where to go" and thinks we should let them sleep here. We did for 2 nights, then he snuck them in a 3rd night, so last night, I felt AWFUL sending them out at 12 midnight, as we sat here in our cozy house getting ready to get in our warm beds - and he left with them! I imagine he talked his girlfriend and her roommates into letting them stay at their place, but I wish he could understand that he is not responsible for these people! Maybe he just needs constant companionship, I don't know, but the girl is going to rehab for heroin, and who knows what else, and the boy, I don't know besides a recent arrest for marijuana. I just can't help feeling bad for them, then realize, okay, they are not my responsibility. But if they were not in the picture, he could be home sleeping in his safe house, in his warm bed. I wish they'd move away, like they keep promising. husband told him this was his 'own doing' since the night he snuck them in to sleep, husband smelled marijuana coming from his room - so he and his friends have to suffer the consequences - thus the no sleepover privileges. [/QUOTE]
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