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An Update! re: easy child being bullied...help please
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<blockquote data-quote="DancerMom" data-source="post: 23021" data-attributes="member: 271"><p>Tina Marie,</p><p></p><p>Hi, I have been away awhile, but I have been through this same thing with my difficult child 1. She begged and begged me not to say anything to anyone because she feared it would make it worse. Some of the more seasoned members here may remember (2 years ago Feb.) she was attacked by a girl who was over 21 years old and had a prison track record a mile long. She was "taking up for her friends". She grabbed difficult child out of my car's backseat while we were stopped. Long story short, difficult child had contusions, scratches, black eyes, hair ripped from her head. I regret I didn't speak up sooner.</p><p></p><p>Not much longer after that, difficult child was attacked in hallway at school. Much larger "bully" took difficult child's head and slammed it in a locker. A male teacher came out and stopped it, but only after there was blood shed. difficult child did NOTHING to protect herself. Her reason? She feared what everyone else would do to her and she would be expelled.</p><p></p><p>When I arrived at the school I had already called the Sheriff's Dept. and had 2 deputies there when husband, her bio-dad and step-mom and myself arrived. The girl who beat her up was expelled and removed from that school. She had a record of bullying and violence.</p><p></p><p>It is the law that your child has to be protected. I made a mistake the first time and said nothing. The second time I said more than you can imagine. After a survey of the 100+ students who watched the locker incident, not one student stated that my difficult child had done anything. She was merely changing books for class.</p><p></p><p>Please do not ignore this. They will also bully and threaten via internet, too. Take measures over that. I used and still use easy child Tattletale with both of the difficult children.</p><p></p><p>I saw what it did to my daughter's self-esteem, I saw her withdraw more. There was over jealousy. Tell your difficult child it is NOT HER FAULT. Make sure she knows it. Don't run, stand up for her and make it known you will not tolerate it any further. </p><p></p><p>Saying a prayer for you and her,</p><p></p><p>Anna</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DancerMom, post: 23021, member: 271"] Tina Marie, Hi, I have been away awhile, but I have been through this same thing with my difficult child 1. She begged and begged me not to say anything to anyone because she feared it would make it worse. Some of the more seasoned members here may remember (2 years ago Feb.) she was attacked by a girl who was over 21 years old and had a prison track record a mile long. She was "taking up for her friends". She grabbed difficult child out of my car's backseat while we were stopped. Long story short, difficult child had contusions, scratches, black eyes, hair ripped from her head. I regret I didn't speak up sooner. Not much longer after that, difficult child was attacked in hallway at school. Much larger "bully" took difficult child's head and slammed it in a locker. A male teacher came out and stopped it, but only after there was blood shed. difficult child did NOTHING to protect herself. Her reason? She feared what everyone else would do to her and she would be expelled. When I arrived at the school I had already called the Sheriff's Dept. and had 2 deputies there when husband, her bio-dad and step-mom and myself arrived. The girl who beat her up was expelled and removed from that school. She had a record of bullying and violence. It is the law that your child has to be protected. I made a mistake the first time and said nothing. The second time I said more than you can imagine. After a survey of the 100+ students who watched the locker incident, not one student stated that my difficult child had done anything. She was merely changing books for class. Please do not ignore this. They will also bully and threaten via internet, too. Take measures over that. I used and still use easy child Tattletale with both of the difficult children. I saw what it did to my daughter's self-esteem, I saw her withdraw more. There was over jealousy. Tell your difficult child it is NOT HER FAULT. Make sure she knows it. Don't run, stand up for her and make it known you will not tolerate it any further. Saying a prayer for you and her, Anna [/QUOTE]
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