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And so 35 is now back to "normal" should I go to Missouri for my grandson?
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 610978" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Your love for you grandson comes across clearly MWM. Since this is not happening immediately, perhaps it's prudent to let the dust settle a tad before you make any plans. I presume your husband would accompany you, is that right? And you would stay in a hotel or motel, so you would have a safe place to go? </p><p></p><p>I would take the time to digest all of this and ponder some boundaries that would be appropriate while you visit. Places to meet. When, how you would see your grandson, what does that look like, are you picking him up and keeping him or is it you and 35, grandson and husband. I would examine exactly how I would want the visit to go, for MY safety and MY comfort and when I was clear on all of that, I'd wait until the timing felt right and then I would communicate my "conditions" or plans for 35 to agree with. If he didn't agree, I would think twice about it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 610978, member: 13542"] Your love for you grandson comes across clearly MWM. Since this is not happening immediately, perhaps it's prudent to let the dust settle a tad before you make any plans. I presume your husband would accompany you, is that right? And you would stay in a hotel or motel, so you would have a safe place to go? I would take the time to digest all of this and ponder some boundaries that would be appropriate while you visit. Places to meet. When, how you would see your grandson, what does that look like, are you picking him up and keeping him or is it you and 35, grandson and husband. I would examine exactly how I would want the visit to go, for MY safety and MY comfort and when I was clear on all of that, I'd wait until the timing felt right and then I would communicate my "conditions" or plans for 35 to agree with. If he didn't agree, I would think twice about it. [/QUOTE]
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