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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 413060" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>You know ex wife or not - he was talking trash about you to a "friend". I have heard many, many men do this about their wives and I just don't get it. I can tell they love them, but yet they need to vent in such a hostile way??? I think mature men do not do that, they have enough self awareness to realize how disgusting that is - and enough maturity to process their issues normally and rationally. Yet for many men - this is the only way they can work through their issues.. They go to work, or the bar, trash their wives, and then go home and love on them. I don't get it - and I would never want to be married to someone like that. Yet, in some way you have to try to not take this too personally. Think of him as a Neanderthal pounding his chest. And then go from there with your decisions. I do not think he is still in love with this woman, he is just attached to her friendship - and acting like a stone age man in the way he is processing his issues with his "friend". He obviously has a lot of anger somewhere deep inside from something far beyond you.</p><p></p><p>Many hugs being sent your way - and strength to make the right decisions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 413060, member: 3301"] You know ex wife or not - he was talking trash about you to a "friend". I have heard many, many men do this about their wives and I just don't get it. I can tell they love them, but yet they need to vent in such a hostile way??? I think mature men do not do that, they have enough self awareness to realize how disgusting that is - and enough maturity to process their issues normally and rationally. Yet for many men - this is the only way they can work through their issues.. They go to work, or the bar, trash their wives, and then go home and love on them. I don't get it - and I would never want to be married to someone like that. Yet, in some way you have to try to not take this too personally. Think of him as a Neanderthal pounding his chest. And then go from there with your decisions. I do not think he is still in love with this woman, he is just attached to her friendship - and acting like a stone age man in the way he is processing his issues with his "friend". He obviously has a lot of anger somewhere deep inside from something far beyond you. Many hugs being sent your way - and strength to make the right decisions. [/QUOTE]
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