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Andre is going to court on Tuesday
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<blockquote data-quote="ChefPaula1965" data-source="post: 156007" data-attributes="member: 2913"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: royalblue">Thank you so much all of you for your thoughts...... and concerns.... </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">Andre's Grandma chooses to blame me for my sister's mistreatment of her children..</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">it's because "Paula was so hyper and E did not have her space and Paula drove her nuts".... E is so mean to her children.. I would call it cruel......... I grew up with- E being extremely cruel to me... really I have some stories that would blow your minds!!</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">But , anyway , all this just to say that Andre's Grandma.. has ALWAYS blamed my dad and me for every one else's problems.. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">** I also am convinced that she has a lot to do with Andre's diagnosis ... she effectively taught him... "if you think mom and step dad are being mean.. call me and I will fix it..." fact is my H is the only father Andre ever had... his bio is a rapist.... ok? But Andre was told by my mom and another my sister E and another sister B that he did not need to obey my h because he was not his "real father" and caused MUCH dissorder in our house because of that... When I backed H up with- Andre's treatment Andre was told that we were being completely unreasonable... that we were bad parents .... etc etc... the kid was told this from the time he was only 6...........</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">Andre did not even have a chance of a normal relationship with- h.... or me for that matter........ nor were we able to hold him accountable for anything since his aunties and grandmother @#$%@$^#$^#%^%& always provider a "way of escape" and condoning of his rebelious ways......... </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">Andre was born with- issues and was ODD even before I met H ..... but all they ever saw was horrible parenting......... they undid everthing H and I were trying to accomplish with Andre.......... Truly this makes me furious...<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /> I know that Andre already had problems, but I seriously believe that we could have helped him have a better life and help him learn how to make better decisions.. yet I am the one blamed for his issues........... This is infuriating.!!!!!!!!!!! </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">Thanks for listening.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4169e1">Paula</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ChefPaula1965, post: 156007, member: 2913"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue]Thank you so much all of you for your thoughts...... and concerns.... [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]Andre's Grandma chooses to blame me for my sister's mistreatment of her children..[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]it's because "Paula was so hyper and E did not have her space and Paula drove her nuts".... E is so mean to her children.. I would call it cruel......... I grew up with- E being extremely cruel to me... really I have some stories that would blow your minds!![/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]But , anyway , all this just to say that Andre's Grandma.. has ALWAYS blamed my dad and me for every one else's problems.. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]** I also am convinced that she has a lot to do with Andre's diagnosis ... she effectively taught him... "if you think mom and step dad are being mean.. call me and I will fix it..." fact is my H is the only father Andre ever had... his bio is a rapist.... ok? But Andre was told by my mom and another my sister E and another sister B that he did not need to obey my h because he was not his "real father" and caused MUCH dissorder in our house because of that... When I backed H up with- Andre's treatment Andre was told that we were being completely unreasonable... that we were bad parents .... etc etc... the kid was told this from the time he was only 6...........[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]Andre did not even have a chance of a normal relationship with- h.... or me for that matter........ nor were we able to hold him accountable for anything since his aunties and grandmother @#$%@$^#$^#%^%& always provider a "way of escape" and condoning of his rebelious ways......... [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]Andre was born with- issues and was ODD even before I met H ..... but all they ever saw was horrible parenting......... they undid everthing H and I were trying to accomplish with Andre.......... Truly this makes me furious...:2hot: I know that Andre already had problems, but I seriously believe that we could have helped him have a better life and help him learn how to make better decisions.. yet I am the one blamed for his issues........... This is infuriating.!!!!!!!!!!! [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]Thanks for listening.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#4169e1]Paula[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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