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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 428182" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Ktmom said what I was thinking. in my opinion your husband and his family have a whole lot of problems on the mental illness side of the jungle. I really doubt that your husband is going to be ABLE to change these things in any sort of time frame that is realistic from your side of things. I also doubt that any change will be permanent or lasting or even long or middle term. He is making short term changes to get you off his back so he can go to his comfortable life where he spends all his money on himself and all his time on himself and his parents and you take care of his kid, your kid, the home, the livestock, anything around the place where you live and anything else he doesn't want to deal with - like taking care of his truck. Why should he make changes when it has been this way for a long time and you haven't gone anywhere? I really don't think he believes you will toss him out. He is making what LOOK liek small changes to get you off his back. Just like "working" all weekend to put a trailer hitch on a vehicle that cannot tow anything you own and actually creating more problems that will need a paid mechanic to fix was to make you THINK he was working but really he was just playing around messing up things to get out of doing whatever it is that NEEDS to be done now like checking that cow to see if she has had her baby.</p><p></p><p>At least that is what it looks like from here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 428182, member: 1233"] Ktmom said what I was thinking. in my opinion your husband and his family have a whole lot of problems on the mental illness side of the jungle. I really doubt that your husband is going to be ABLE to change these things in any sort of time frame that is realistic from your side of things. I also doubt that any change will be permanent or lasting or even long or middle term. He is making short term changes to get you off his back so he can go to his comfortable life where he spends all his money on himself and all his time on himself and his parents and you take care of his kid, your kid, the home, the livestock, anything around the place where you live and anything else he doesn't want to deal with - like taking care of his truck. Why should he make changes when it has been this way for a long time and you haven't gone anywhere? I really don't think he believes you will toss him out. He is making what LOOK liek small changes to get you off his back. Just like "working" all weekend to put a trailer hitch on a vehicle that cannot tow anything you own and actually creating more problems that will need a paid mechanic to fix was to make you THINK he was working but really he was just playing around messing up things to get out of doing whatever it is that NEEDS to be done now like checking that cow to see if she has had her baby. At least that is what it looks like from here. [/QUOTE]
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