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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 428472" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I don't know what she is, but I have thought before that she fits the spectrum to some degree. But that doesn't fit because she knows dang good and well what she's doing when she makes her jabs at me, generally when husband isn't present. Never really gave it much thought becuase, quite frankly, there's no real point. She's 80. She's miserable. Her whole life seems to have been this way. And heck, i she can't accept that eating an entire package of Oreos as a diabetic and feeling sick is no one's fault but her own, there's no way in hades she'll ever get that her misery is self created, either. </p><p>On one hand, I feel sorry for her. On the other, she brings so much of it on herself. and on both hands, I am doing nothing beyond surviving her from now on.</p><p>Yes, the male counselor is a great idea. And getting him there at all was a stretch, so I'm glad she's doing this, tho it seems a bit underhanded to get individual counseling under the pretense of 'marriage counseling'. but hey, whatever works.</p><p>In the meantime, she told me to go ahead and hire some things out if i can, in order to catch up and keep up. I think we're kinda at a stalling point for a bit. She seemed to think we can't move forward much til we know what his relationship with his parents really is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 428472, member: 1848"] I don't know what she is, but I have thought before that she fits the spectrum to some degree. But that doesn't fit because she knows dang good and well what she's doing when she makes her jabs at me, generally when husband isn't present. Never really gave it much thought becuase, quite frankly, there's no real point. She's 80. She's miserable. Her whole life seems to have been this way. And heck, i she can't accept that eating an entire package of Oreos as a diabetic and feeling sick is no one's fault but her own, there's no way in hades she'll ever get that her misery is self created, either. On one hand, I feel sorry for her. On the other, she brings so much of it on herself. and on both hands, I am doing nothing beyond surviving her from now on. Yes, the male counselor is a great idea. And getting him there at all was a stretch, so I'm glad she's doing this, tho it seems a bit underhanded to get individual counseling under the pretense of 'marriage counseling'. but hey, whatever works. In the meantime, she told me to go ahead and hire some things out if i can, in order to catch up and keep up. I think we're kinda at a stalling point for a bit. She seemed to think we can't move forward much til we know what his relationship with his parents really is. [/QUOTE]
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