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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 43687" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>"I have reminded myself that this is how my son is living now and I can not emotionally handle the frantic mom searching for son again. I know once I make the first call it is like a drug and I won't rest until I have turned every leaf."</p><p></p><p>ditto. I do not want to know. I do hold out that the morgue or cops will call if I am needed. </p><p></p><p>I used to be frantic, now I dont want to know. I have learned I cannot help. once you learn you cannot change things you do better. it is the acceptance of your inability to try one more time that makes you have peace. </p><p></p><p>ant is on the move too. he stays two wks at a time in one place. I do not want to see the places. been there done that and it only hurts me. </p><p></p><p>so I hope you are more at peace in time. </p><p></p><p>as for inperson or online grps, it is up to you. I have this online grp, went to a few inperson grps but not any more. I get tired of the misery. I do have a few families with ant-a-likes that I commiserate with from time to time. do what you feel comfy with.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 43687, member: 97"] "I have reminded myself that this is how my son is living now and I can not emotionally handle the frantic mom searching for son again. I know once I make the first call it is like a drug and I won't rest until I have turned every leaf." ditto. I do not want to know. I do hold out that the morgue or cops will call if I am needed. I used to be frantic, now I dont want to know. I have learned I cannot help. once you learn you cannot change things you do better. it is the acceptance of your inability to try one more time that makes you have peace. ant is on the move too. he stays two wks at a time in one place. I do not want to see the places. been there done that and it only hurts me. so I hope you are more at peace in time. as for inperson or online grps, it is up to you. I have this online grp, went to a few inperson grps but not any more. I get tired of the misery. I do have a few families with ant-a-likes that I commiserate with from time to time. do what you feel comfy with. [/QUOTE]
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