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Another Newbie Here and question at the bottom of the LONG post
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 427951" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>It's not about you being attached ~ it's about your difficult child & his ability to bond or "attach" to you & your family. As to someone taking all your children versus just the child with the issues is stretching your imagination. </p><p></p><p>This may indeed may an adoption that's failed or needs to be disrupted. AND you will feel guilt, remorse, sadness ~ you'll likely feel a weight lifted off your shoulders as well. However it's you & your husband to make that decision - psychiatrist is likely "being the bad guy" to help you sort this out. Only you can tell if this adoption can succeed. The only way it will succeed is if you get some help for your difficult child ~ your entire family. difficult child appears to need extensive treatment; you as a family need respite.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 427951, member: 393"] It's not about you being attached ~ it's about your difficult child & his ability to bond or "attach" to you & your family. As to someone taking all your children versus just the child with the issues is stretching your imagination. This may indeed may an adoption that's failed or needs to be disrupted. AND you will feel guilt, remorse, sadness ~ you'll likely feel a weight lifted off your shoulders as well. However it's you & your husband to make that decision - psychiatrist is likely "being the bad guy" to help you sort this out. Only you can tell if this adoption can succeed. The only way it will succeed is if you get some help for your difficult child ~ your entire family. difficult child appears to need extensive treatment; you as a family need respite. [/QUOTE]
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