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Another non update (of course rambling and long)...confession at the end
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 544085" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Oh Sig I know how much this is hurting you and he just doesn't care. He's going to live his life the way he wants and he's making it clear that he doesn't care like like you and I wish our difficult child's would care. I have not seen or heard from my difficult child since her birthday on June 6 other that and the chance encounter I had with her walking her dog when I drove by her apartment after my support group meeting just to see if her car was there. She doesn't call us or come to visit or for dinner or even send us a text. A couple times I accidently pocket dialed her and got the response "wats up?" I saw her post on her fb asking if anyone had air conditioning because her apat was so hot and needed a place to cool off. Ummmm we have air conditioning. She has just written us off and I am convinced we will never hear hear from her again unless she needs something that she can't beg, borrow or steal from someone else.</p><p></p><p>It hurts. For 19 years our lives were consumed with her and now that she is gone, just disappeared, it's weird. Of course it's more peaceful but it's also so very strange and unnatural. What am I suppose to do with the memories of these past 21 years? How should I feel knowing husband could have retired by now and we could be living easy had it not been for the fortune we spent on trying to help her? What do I do with the bitterness of so many wasted years and the emptiness I feel when I realize she wants nothing to do with us? And what do I do about the family reunion Aug 11 that I really don't want her to attend because it's so awkward now around her and yet I am saddened that she becomes more estranged from her extended family with every missed event. No one asks about her naymore and she doesn't even get birthday cards from anyone. They have all moved on but I'm stuck. I don't even know her anymore.</p><p></p><p>So I truly do understand you and know your heart is hurting and I care. </p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 544085, member: 59"] Oh Sig I know how much this is hurting you and he just doesn't care. He's going to live his life the way he wants and he's making it clear that he doesn't care like like you and I wish our difficult child's would care. I have not seen or heard from my difficult child since her birthday on June 6 other that and the chance encounter I had with her walking her dog when I drove by her apartment after my support group meeting just to see if her car was there. She doesn't call us or come to visit or for dinner or even send us a text. A couple times I accidently pocket dialed her and got the response "wats up?" I saw her post on her fb asking if anyone had air conditioning because her apat was so hot and needed a place to cool off. Ummmm we have air conditioning. She has just written us off and I am convinced we will never hear hear from her again unless she needs something that she can't beg, borrow or steal from someone else. It hurts. For 19 years our lives were consumed with her and now that she is gone, just disappeared, it's weird. Of course it's more peaceful but it's also so very strange and unnatural. What am I suppose to do with the memories of these past 21 years? How should I feel knowing husband could have retired by now and we could be living easy had it not been for the fortune we spent on trying to help her? What do I do with the bitterness of so many wasted years and the emptiness I feel when I realize she wants nothing to do with us? And what do I do about the family reunion Aug 11 that I really don't want her to attend because it's so awkward now around her and yet I am saddened that she becomes more estranged from her extended family with every missed event. No one asks about her naymore and she doesn't even get birthday cards from anyone. They have all moved on but I'm stuck. I don't even know her anymore. So I truly do understand you and know your heart is hurting and I care. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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