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Antisocial Personality Disorder Diagnosis of my 18 year old son
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<blockquote data-quote="elizabrary" data-source="post: 432060" data-attributes="member: 11235"><p>Give him a written "eviction" notice which tells him when he must be out by. Since you have already told him I would make it a short time- like 2 weeks. In the notice spell out exactly what you are prepared to do and STICK TO IT. Personally I would say you need to be out by x date. If you are not out by then I will call the police to escort you out. Your belongings will be held until x date then I will donate them to charity. Change the locks on the eviction date and if he tries to return you must call the police and charge him with trespassing. Be prepared for him to up the ante, which is very common with these kids. Once you actually stick to your word they get all kinds of crazy- screaming, threatening, trying to break in, calling over and over and over (my daughter has done this one a lot). They will also start playing sympathy card- telling you they have no place to go, are hungry, etc. When I have gone down this road with my daughter it is best for me to have no contact with her. I don't answer when she calls and I erase the messages without listening to them. This is a very stressful and difficult time to get through. Good luck and jump on here when you need to!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elizabrary, post: 432060, member: 11235"] Give him a written "eviction" notice which tells him when he must be out by. Since you have already told him I would make it a short time- like 2 weeks. In the notice spell out exactly what you are prepared to do and STICK TO IT. Personally I would say you need to be out by x date. If you are not out by then I will call the police to escort you out. Your belongings will be held until x date then I will donate them to charity. Change the locks on the eviction date and if he tries to return you must call the police and charge him with trespassing. Be prepared for him to up the ante, which is very common with these kids. Once you actually stick to your word they get all kinds of crazy- screaming, threatening, trying to break in, calling over and over and over (my daughter has done this one a lot). They will also start playing sympathy card- telling you they have no place to go, are hungry, etc. When I have gone down this road with my daughter it is best for me to have no contact with her. I don't answer when she calls and I erase the messages without listening to them. This is a very stressful and difficult time to get through. Good luck and jump on here when you need to! [/QUOTE]
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