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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 551059" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Tedo, we could never, ever leave the tweedles alone together. Many board members may remember when husband & I had hooked up video cameras throughout our home to keep an eye on kt & wm when husband & I could not be in the same room with them. husband & I had monitors in our bedroom, the kitchen & on our desks.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Sorry...rambling again.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px">It's time for training ~ teaching your guys to stay out of the other's way during times of stress. We practiced this a lot with kt & wm, in therapy & at home. difficult child 1 & difficult child 2 each need their safe place. That place is off-limits to the other one. No questions asked when either of your difficult children go to their safe place. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px">The time to put this in action is now, especially when you are at home & can supervise this little "experiment in terror". </span></span><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/rollingpin.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rollingpin:" title="rollingpin :rollingpin:" data-shortname=":rollingpin:" /><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Sorry</span></span><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sorrysmiley.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sorrysmiley:" title="sorrysmiley :sorrysmiley:" data-shortname=":sorrysmiley:" /></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px">Both kt & wm knew their safe places. After a time & constant reminders it worked. Fortunately husband was here to help me enforce the boundaries. It fell apart once wm hit puberty & his sexualized behaviors became more & more prevalent.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px">This doesn't mean with time & effort this idea won't work for you & your difficult children.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'century gothic'"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 551059, member: 393"] [FONT=century gothic][SIZE=2]Tedo, we could never, ever leave the tweedles alone together. Many board members may remember when husband & I had hooked up video cameras throughout our home to keep an eye on kt & wm when husband & I could not be in the same room with them. husband & I had monitors in our bedroom, the kitchen & on our desks. Sorry...rambling again. It's time for training ~ teaching your guys to stay out of the other's way during times of stress. We practiced this a lot with kt & wm, in therapy & at home. difficult child 1 & difficult child 2 each need their safe place. That place is off-limits to the other one. No questions asked when either of your difficult children go to their safe place. The time to put this in action is now, especially when you are at home & can supervise this little "experiment in terror". [/SIZE][/FONT]:rollingpin:[FONT=century gothic][SIZE=2]Sorry[/SIZE][/FONT]:sorrysmiley: [FONT=century gothic][SIZE=2] Both kt & wm knew their safe places. After a time & constant reminders it worked. Fortunately husband was here to help me enforce the boundaries. It fell apart once wm hit puberty & his sexualized behaviors became more & more prevalent. This doesn't mean with time & effort this idea won't work for you & your difficult children. [/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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