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<blockquote data-quote="lovelyboy" data-source="post: 543749" data-attributes="member: 8045"><p>Sorry people that I didnt respond yet....was busy sorting difficult child out, taking him to pead for his bad headaches! He is going to try and get us a quick appointment with new neuro!</p><p>Any way......Ok....I did mention the possibility of different school to difficult child....telling him about the less work, exct.....He got so upset, regressed and went and lie in fetal position on his bed! He says he loves his current school, teacher, friends and coach! He has always had great relationships with all his teachers...he is their blue eye boy because he is well behaved and get high marks.....</p><p>Regarding homeschooling....I think its great to lessen social stress and help with his planning and stuff, but I would put him in a group with other kids and get some one else to tutor, because he doesnt like receiving info and help from me.....But the structure and routine at school helps him in some way with knowing what to expect and predictibility.</p><p>We dont have Individual educational programs at our schools....not at all! It's either you are in, coping or they ask you to leave!</p><p>Regarding school classes...his current class has 24 kids and they try and keep it around 20.....Goverment schools is between 30-40! The thing is...the pressure to perform and the terrible strictness at his current school contributes to the stress, but in some way it also makes him feel save! If this makes any sense?</p><p>Allen....I have spoken to the school and in principle they are all in for helping collabirating, exct....but in practice....when overworked and stressed out they just dont always gets it.....Then the child with the little extra help becomes a hassle! The other thing is....because my son has the abbility to try and hide his anxiety and difficulty....they dont see him when he falls appart at home! So when I speek to them its like they cant believe we are talking about the same kid....then they only see me as the overprotective, hovering, paranoid mom....Then the principle will say things like mommy you need to cut him loose and let him go! </p><p>Anyway....thanx for all your love and support!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovelyboy, post: 543749, member: 8045"] Sorry people that I didnt respond yet....was busy sorting difficult child out, taking him to pead for his bad headaches! He is going to try and get us a quick appointment with new neuro! Any way......Ok....I did mention the possibility of different school to difficult child....telling him about the less work, exct.....He got so upset, regressed and went and lie in fetal position on his bed! He says he loves his current school, teacher, friends and coach! He has always had great relationships with all his teachers...he is their blue eye boy because he is well behaved and get high marks..... Regarding homeschooling....I think its great to lessen social stress and help with his planning and stuff, but I would put him in a group with other kids and get some one else to tutor, because he doesnt like receiving info and help from me.....But the structure and routine at school helps him in some way with knowing what to expect and predictibility. We dont have Individual educational programs at our schools....not at all! It's either you are in, coping or they ask you to leave! Regarding school classes...his current class has 24 kids and they try and keep it around 20.....Goverment schools is between 30-40! The thing is...the pressure to perform and the terrible strictness at his current school contributes to the stress, but in some way it also makes him feel save! If this makes any sense? Allen....I have spoken to the school and in principle they are all in for helping collabirating, exct....but in practice....when overworked and stressed out they just dont always gets it.....Then the child with the little extra help becomes a hassle! The other thing is....because my son has the abbility to try and hide his anxiety and difficulty....they dont see him when he falls appart at home! So when I speek to them its like they cant believe we are talking about the same kid....then they only see me as the overprotective, hovering, paranoid mom....Then the principle will say things like mommy you need to cut him loose and let him go! Anyway....thanx for all your love and support! [/QUOTE]
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