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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 203920" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>they won't allow her i thought of that as well to help out in class sort of thing. anxiety class isn't running this year. problem is you can pop her in social settings yet she just goes inward.</p><p></p><p>in her theatre group just to watch her, wow. she talks to no one, at all ever. she is basically alone in there as well. yet like i said her "want" to be like other kids as she puts it is soo great that she keeps trying so hard. wow she is so cute. yet you can see her nervous in there, unsure, her tics come out in there when she gets excited watching other kids perform or sing. difficult child has always derived her pleasure on some small level from watching other kids play, never from her playing with them. </p><p></p><p>yet now its beginning to change. i found out last week girls in school yard were abusing her. they are the cool girls of the 4th grade and they have difficult child moving all their lunchboxes all 5 of them around the school yard and making fun of her while she does it. because she's alone she's an easy target.</p><p></p><p>i'm going back to doctor tuesday yet if she will not respond well to prozac, or any ssri's it's kind of like i'm screwed because i'm not popping thorazine in her to get her to talk to kids and have social skills. ya know what i mean? tha'Tourette's Syndrome just crazy.</p><p></p><p>you can put difficult child in any social situation and she will not talk or speak, that's just the way it is. yet she's not one of those children with whom are ok with being loner's, she's totally not and i strongly believe this has attributed to her major depressive disorder diagnosis, and to the moodiness and the rest of it.</p><p></p><p>i'm so disgusted tonight, sorry. it's just she looks to me to solve things for her and i cna't solve this one. school is of no help in facilitating friendships with her. they did try but what can you do with a kid who is too anxiety ridden in those situations to talk? only way it ever works is one on one. she has two friends for that yet as i said their tired of being with her all the time. one actually said to her point blank you have to make other friends because i can't always be with you. i think that was two weeks ago. at least she gave her forewarning she was flying the coop.</p><p></p><p>ugh. i know it's a long road ahead i know therapy is imperative part of this. yet drugs may be as well. if i knew if i gave her a pill her anxiety would lower and she'd be able to talk to other kids, socialize etc. she needs to learn socialization skills also that's soo lacking i would give her a pill. yet whenever we try something it just doens't do it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 203920, member: 4514"] hi, they won't allow her i thought of that as well to help out in class sort of thing. anxiety class isn't running this year. problem is you can pop her in social settings yet she just goes inward. in her theatre group just to watch her, wow. she talks to no one, at all ever. she is basically alone in there as well. yet like i said her "want" to be like other kids as she puts it is soo great that she keeps trying so hard. wow she is so cute. yet you can see her nervous in there, unsure, her tics come out in there when she gets excited watching other kids perform or sing. difficult child has always derived her pleasure on some small level from watching other kids play, never from her playing with them. yet now its beginning to change. i found out last week girls in school yard were abusing her. they are the cool girls of the 4th grade and they have difficult child moving all their lunchboxes all 5 of them around the school yard and making fun of her while she does it. because she's alone she's an easy target. i'm going back to doctor tuesday yet if she will not respond well to prozac, or any ssri's it's kind of like i'm screwed because i'm not popping thorazine in her to get her to talk to kids and have social skills. ya know what i mean? tha'Tourette's Syndrome just crazy. you can put difficult child in any social situation and she will not talk or speak, that's just the way it is. yet she's not one of those children with whom are ok with being loner's, she's totally not and i strongly believe this has attributed to her major depressive disorder diagnosis, and to the moodiness and the rest of it. i'm so disgusted tonight, sorry. it's just she looks to me to solve things for her and i cna't solve this one. school is of no help in facilitating friendships with her. they did try but what can you do with a kid who is too anxiety ridden in those situations to talk? only way it ever works is one on one. she has two friends for that yet as i said their tired of being with her all the time. one actually said to her point blank you have to make other friends because i can't always be with you. i think that was two weeks ago. at least she gave her forewarning she was flying the coop. ugh. i know it's a long road ahead i know therapy is imperative part of this. yet drugs may be as well. if i knew if i gave her a pill her anxiety would lower and she'd be able to talk to other kids, socialize etc. she needs to learn socialization skills also that's soo lacking i would give her a pill. yet whenever we try something it just doens't do it. [/QUOTE]
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