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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 419785" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>How about - </p><p> </p><p>difficult child will show proper anger management control consistantly throughout her day at home and in school</p><p> </p><p>This goal will be attained by attending anger management classes, and therapy TB attended by difficult child and paid for by the state, for a period of six months with reviews by a qualified therapist every month. Upon graduation of anger management class and obtaining goals of said class with certificate, difficult child will then enter into a community based volunteer program where she will give 5 hours a week; every week for one year of her time towards learning skills that will get her prepared for a job. Also during this time other goals will be determined to include: </p><p> </p><p>Work/Life skills - as they pertain to obtaining/keeping a part-time job earning money</p><p>Opening a bank account - </p><p>Learning how to balance a check book</p><p>Academic probation -C's or better - as it pertains to grades in school which can earn her rewards towards other external goals ie; bank money for drivers education, 1 years car insurance, car repairs, and a 1/2 monies of a vehicle. All to be earned while working. </p><p>*all monies for above mentioned items will be banked and not spent before drivers education is even mentioned. If goals are met? Parents provide other 1/2 of monies toward a vehicle, and offer to put daughter on their insurance. </p><p> </p><p>And above all - </p><p>Our goal of absolute safety in our home must be maintained at all times. Should at any time any family member be harmed by difficult child? Our agreement will be void - This is NOT negotiable. </p><p> </p><p>Of course - you can replace the car thing with - cool clothes from Holister, or Wet seal or Awesome stereo - whatever HER hearts desire is - It could be a trip to Disney for all i know. But the thing is - it has to be a series of goals that are something SHE wants badly. A new room in the basement ? Something she really wants that she would just jump through hoops for - AND then yes - put the safety NO TOUCH rule as an ABSOLUTE in - </p><p> </p><p>Your caseworker is inexperienced and not very creative. Call Steve Shoemaker....Have a chat. Explain the problem you are having and revisit this. HE is AWESOME.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 419785, member: 4964"] How about - difficult child will show proper anger management control consistantly throughout her day at home and in school This goal will be attained by attending anger management classes, and therapy TB attended by difficult child and paid for by the state, for a period of six months with reviews by a qualified therapist every month. Upon graduation of anger management class and obtaining goals of said class with certificate, difficult child will then enter into a community based volunteer program where she will give 5 hours a week; every week for one year of her time towards learning skills that will get her prepared for a job. Also during this time other goals will be determined to include: Work/Life skills - as they pertain to obtaining/keeping a part-time job earning money Opening a bank account - Learning how to balance a check book Academic probation -C's or better - as it pertains to grades in school which can earn her rewards towards other external goals ie; bank money for drivers education, 1 years car insurance, car repairs, and a 1/2 monies of a vehicle. All to be earned while working. *all monies for above mentioned items will be banked and not spent before drivers education is even mentioned. If goals are met? Parents provide other 1/2 of monies toward a vehicle, and offer to put daughter on their insurance. And above all - Our goal of absolute safety in our home must be maintained at all times. Should at any time any family member be harmed by difficult child? Our agreement will be void - This is NOT negotiable. Of course - you can replace the car thing with - cool clothes from Holister, or Wet seal or Awesome stereo - whatever HER hearts desire is - It could be a trip to Disney for all i know. But the thing is - it has to be a series of goals that are something SHE wants badly. A new room in the basement ? Something she really wants that she would just jump through hoops for - AND then yes - put the safety NO TOUCH rule as an ABSOLUTE in - Your caseworker is inexperienced and not very creative. Call Steve Shoemaker....Have a chat. Explain the problem you are having and revisit this. HE is AWESOME. [/QUOTE]
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