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<blockquote data-quote="rlsnights" data-source="post: 419886" data-attributes="member: 7948"><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></p><p></p><p>thank you will <strong><span style="color: purple">LET</span></strong> his mother live???</p><p></p><p>I see some really good suggestions have been offered about writing longer term goals with intermediate steps. But this is not what I think someone means when they say "Behavior Chart". They mean something with simple, easily measured goals. And my impression from Daisy is that moment to moment safety is in doubt in her home. So longer term goals are nice but won't help if difficult child seriously injures someone first.</p><p></p><p>Writing that kind of goal is hard to do in purely positive language but can be done.</p><p></p><p>However, I think your deadline is past and the "let mom live" line just is too good to pass up.</p><p></p><p>I hope you will forgive my irreverance but really, we should turn this into a game of sorts don't you think? Who can come up with the "best" positive goal for difficult child in the spirit of Let Mom Live?</p><p></p><p>When frustrated, difficult child will only break the dishes purchased for this purpose after asking her mother for permission in 9 out of 10 trials.</p><p></p><p>Mmm no.</p><p></p><p>When upset, difficult child will go to her room when asked and stay there for 2 minutes in 9 out of 10 trials.</p><p></p><p>Better.</p><p></p><p>When upset, difficult child will go to her room when asked without touching, hitting, pinching, biting, kicking or otherwise assaulting a family member in 9 out of 10 trials.</p><p></p><p>Getting in the groove here.</p><p></p><p>When enraged, difficult child will leave the house without assaulting a family member in 9 out of 10 trials.</p><p></p><p>When enraged, difficult child will leave the house without assaulting a family member and voluntarily return home the same day in 9 out of 10 trials.</p><p></p><p>There. </p><p></p><p>How's that for a start? she asked the case manager, smiling brightly.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/angel.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":angel:" title="angel :angel:" data-shortname=":angel:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rlsnights, post: 419886, member: 7948"] :rofl::rofl::rofl: thank you will [B][COLOR="purple"]LET[/COLOR][/B] his mother live??? I see some really good suggestions have been offered about writing longer term goals with intermediate steps. But this is not what I think someone means when they say "Behavior Chart". They mean something with simple, easily measured goals. And my impression from Daisy is that moment to moment safety is in doubt in her home. So longer term goals are nice but won't help if difficult child seriously injures someone first. Writing that kind of goal is hard to do in purely positive language but can be done. However, I think your deadline is past and the "let mom live" line just is too good to pass up. I hope you will forgive my irreverance but really, we should turn this into a game of sorts don't you think? Who can come up with the "best" positive goal for difficult child in the spirit of Let Mom Live? When frustrated, difficult child will only break the dishes purchased for this purpose after asking her mother for permission in 9 out of 10 trials. Mmm no. When upset, difficult child will go to her room when asked and stay there for 2 minutes in 9 out of 10 trials. Better. When upset, difficult child will go to her room when asked without touching, hitting, pinching, biting, kicking or otherwise assaulting a family member in 9 out of 10 trials. Getting in the groove here. When enraged, difficult child will leave the house without assaulting a family member in 9 out of 10 trials. When enraged, difficult child will leave the house without assaulting a family member and voluntarily return home the same day in 9 out of 10 trials. There. How's that for a start? she asked the case manager, smiling brightly.:angel: [/QUOTE]
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