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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 352263" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>I'm not sure what steps her husband has taken. I do know he has taken over bill paying and has restricted her access to their money. Apparently as of his most recent paycheque, she had been running to those pay advance places since she was no longer able to take from their account. Of course she didn't pay the loans because they were secret. So at least one company certified the blank check she left and it cleared on his pay day, leaving him short for some payments due. So I do know he's taken more steps in order to ensure she can't do those things now. This tells me he has her pretty cut off from money. This is only in recent couple of weeks. This tells me at least that he is finally ready to put up with her rage if needed in order to make some important decisions in his role of provider etc. (proud of him and hope he moves beyond these steps)</p><p></p><p>He has already made arrangements to have his daughter room/board with her friends family starting in the completion of this school year. She was to go off to Univ. in the fall but is staying here another year for some more credits in high school that will help her get into veterinary medicine. She will live with her friends family and her dad will pay rent for her. He is unable to have the son with him at this time. He is currently living in a spare room with family friends, they have 5 kids. Taking his son there isn't possible and no way can he afford to have a place alone there while maintaining the home here as well. He did try to get his son placed in a treatment program (behavioural) but was refused since he has access to therapy etc. (Although sister in law neglects to keep that regular) From what I have heard trickle down through the family, he has told sister in law at the past weekend that he will not be moving her and their son down with him as long as this is going on. I found that out tonight. I think he's ready to lay it on the line with her and to let her hit her bottom. We've left a message asking him to call my s/o tonight or tomorrow when he has a chance. S/O is going to have a heart to heart with his brother in law and see what we can do.</p><p></p><p>Their mother called a short time ago. WOndering had we seen K today. No. (other than the door I didn't answer) I asked why. I guess the kids are clueless where sister in law is (the norm) and my mother in law knew this means she's out and "doing her thing". While on the phone with his mother, s/o told her that he didn't want to hear from other family about new antics for so long as everyone is still just talking to each other and making no steps forward. He told her he wants a family intervention and until then, he will speak with her husband about the issue but otherwise is asking for everyone to just keep the "new" news of her life/choices to themselves as he's heard enough talk and is wanting some action from the family as a group. I think it was a wise choice of his. I would do the same if it were my relatives. mother in law did mention she thought that sister in law's husband might have asked the military police to keep an eye out for her due to concerns of driving while under influence. S/O is going to ask her husband when he calls us back. I hope he did.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 352263, member: 4264"] I'm not sure what steps her husband has taken. I do know he has taken over bill paying and has restricted her access to their money. Apparently as of his most recent paycheque, she had been running to those pay advance places since she was no longer able to take from their account. Of course she didn't pay the loans because they were secret. So at least one company certified the blank check she left and it cleared on his pay day, leaving him short for some payments due. So I do know he's taken more steps in order to ensure she can't do those things now. This tells me he has her pretty cut off from money. This is only in recent couple of weeks. This tells me at least that he is finally ready to put up with her rage if needed in order to make some important decisions in his role of provider etc. (proud of him and hope he moves beyond these steps) He has already made arrangements to have his daughter room/board with her friends family starting in the completion of this school year. She was to go off to Univ. in the fall but is staying here another year for some more credits in high school that will help her get into veterinary medicine. She will live with her friends family and her dad will pay rent for her. He is unable to have the son with him at this time. He is currently living in a spare room with family friends, they have 5 kids. Taking his son there isn't possible and no way can he afford to have a place alone there while maintaining the home here as well. He did try to get his son placed in a treatment program (behavioural) but was refused since he has access to therapy etc. (Although sister in law neglects to keep that regular) From what I have heard trickle down through the family, he has told sister in law at the past weekend that he will not be moving her and their son down with him as long as this is going on. I found that out tonight. I think he's ready to lay it on the line with her and to let her hit her bottom. We've left a message asking him to call my s/o tonight or tomorrow when he has a chance. S/O is going to have a heart to heart with his brother in law and see what we can do. Their mother called a short time ago. WOndering had we seen K today. No. (other than the door I didn't answer) I asked why. I guess the kids are clueless where sister in law is (the norm) and my mother in law knew this means she's out and "doing her thing". While on the phone with his mother, s/o told her that he didn't want to hear from other family about new antics for so long as everyone is still just talking to each other and making no steps forward. He told her he wants a family intervention and until then, he will speak with her husband about the issue but otherwise is asking for everyone to just keep the "new" news of her life/choices to themselves as he's heard enough talk and is wanting some action from the family as a group. I think it was a wise choice of his. I would do the same if it were my relatives. mother in law did mention she thought that sister in law's husband might have asked the military police to keep an eye out for her due to concerns of driving while under influence. S/O is going to ask her husband when he calls us back. I hope he did. [/QUOTE]
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