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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 602207" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am astounded at this woman. Around here there is almost never deviation from the shared parenting plan where each parent gets the kid for half of the week. I do mean NEVER. But a parent who does the things your son's ex is doing can find herself with extremely limited visitation and a psychiatric evaluation to get any unsupervised visitation at all. The judges who hear divorce and custody issues are not at all patient with parents like your son's ex. </p><p></p><p>She sounds almost as bad as my uncle's first ex. Her divorce lawyer actually found another career after their divorce. The judge flat out told her that he was going giving everything she asked for to her ex because of how terrible she was as a wife, a mother and a person. She was that far into crazyland. Judges do NOT like to deal with that. She did some truly hilariously sick things during the home study. The social worker who evaluated the family was a lovely woman, and my uncle's ex called her all sorts of racial epithets including the N word both in documents submitted to the court and to the woman's face. THen his ex couldn't figure out why the woman said she should not have custody of goldfish much less her child! It was truly incredible to watch.</p><p></p><p>I hope this does not descend to that level, but it sounds like it might. I remember speaking to the judge, the lawyers and th social worker evaluating the family about my uncle and his ex and my niece and I could not believe the things that went on. Of course I had not ever seen the inner workings of a divorce as this was the first one in our family. </p><p></p><p>I hope that your son can be the voice of reason and that it will benefit him in this situation. I will say that no matter how much gfgbro hates his ex, and he does, he tries very very hard to be at least civil to her for their child's sake. They do not go into open warfare at niece's activities, or at least HE doesn't. She has been known to, but he works to not give in to his urge to be awful to her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 602207, member: 1233"] I am astounded at this woman. Around here there is almost never deviation from the shared parenting plan where each parent gets the kid for half of the week. I do mean NEVER. But a parent who does the things your son's ex is doing can find herself with extremely limited visitation and a psychiatric evaluation to get any unsupervised visitation at all. The judges who hear divorce and custody issues are not at all patient with parents like your son's ex. She sounds almost as bad as my uncle's first ex. Her divorce lawyer actually found another career after their divorce. The judge flat out told her that he was going giving everything she asked for to her ex because of how terrible she was as a wife, a mother and a person. She was that far into crazyland. Judges do NOT like to deal with that. She did some truly hilariously sick things during the home study. The social worker who evaluated the family was a lovely woman, and my uncle's ex called her all sorts of racial epithets including the N word both in documents submitted to the court and to the woman's face. THen his ex couldn't figure out why the woman said she should not have custody of goldfish much less her child! It was truly incredible to watch. I hope this does not descend to that level, but it sounds like it might. I remember speaking to the judge, the lawyers and th social worker evaluating the family about my uncle and his ex and my niece and I could not believe the things that went on. Of course I had not ever seen the inner workings of a divorce as this was the first one in our family. I hope that your son can be the voice of reason and that it will benefit him in this situation. I will say that no matter how much gfgbro hates his ex, and he does, he tries very very hard to be at least civil to her for their child's sake. They do not go into open warfare at niece's activities, or at least HE doesn't. She has been known to, but he works to not give in to his urge to be awful to her. [/QUOTE]
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