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<blockquote data-quote="Tania_port" data-source="post: 262707" data-attributes="member: 7201"><p>I am keeping the best attitude as possible. I have talked with doctors and the school district. I had an interview with the school system about the problems we have with andrew and i am suppose to be getting him tested when they send me some things in the mail. I told them that i do know what to do with andrew. They know all these things about him they dont know about the recient thing with my cat though. Ive been waiting for the papers to come in the mail to take him up to the school for testing. Its hard to keep to positive when he acts up all day long. Speacially when you love your kids so much. It kills me to see him not caring one bit how he effects us all. I can afford school supplies. Thats not the problem. I cannot afford to take my kid to therapy every week. We woke up this morning to him messing with the cats again. Even though he knows hes not allowed to touch them. All of his toys are in the closet and he hasnt rode his bike in 2 weeks now due to what he did to my cat. He constantly does exactly what he want to do unless punishment is really terrible. Im not as strict as a man so i get treated really bad when my husband leaves me with him. And im so sucked into his lying. I feel sorry for him all the time. I dont know why i always feel sorry for him i know he lies and sometimes i jump in when my husband is diciplining him. I try so hard not to do it but sometimes i do. I Talked with one doctor online that wrote the book Just like his Father and she told me love is the most important thing. She said i have to love him with all i have and show him but how can i if he wont stop going against all the rules? I told her im not going to reward the bad behavior. And i have also had a therapist tell me that when he throws a fit just grab him and hug him. Why is it that they want me to reward the bad behavior. He already thinks im to soft on him thats why he cant wait for my husband to go back to work. He knows i love him a lot and thats why i think he ignores my rules. He has accused his dad of some sexual things and i had to report it to the cops. They did an investigation and found it unfounded. Im thinking i need someone that isnt going to feel to sorry for andrew. He munipulates me all the time to get his way. I always have such pity for him. And the reason why hes introuble is because of stuff he does. He totally disreguards our rules unless the punishment is took tough on him. They said that hes got a learning disorder also but the problem is i see him every day. They dont see how smart this kid is. He applies all his smarts to all he wants to. If hes uninterested in what you want him to learn of course he isnt going to be smart in the subject. I think hes very smart when he will comply. To comply with your subject he has to be pumped up about it. You have to get him really excited to learn what you want him to learn. Otherwise he could careless. He just learned to do buttons on shirts and thats because he never cared before. He seen my daughter getting attention and he decided he wanted it also. When he sees someone else other then him getting attention he has to make my life very hard. He cant stand the focus being off of him. I have 3 daughters and non of them like him, I feel terrible about this but the thing is hes so mean that no body wants to play with him. I better stop tying now i could go on all day with this kind of stuff. Im getting some books to help us out with this disorder. Im sure there is helpful tips to effective parenting these kids. Im going to try to get him on medicine for his ADHD also that may mellow him out. Good luck guys and i thank you guys for listening im sure i sound like a baby. I sure do to myself. Thanks again. Good luck everyone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tania_port, post: 262707, member: 7201"] I am keeping the best attitude as possible. I have talked with doctors and the school district. I had an interview with the school system about the problems we have with andrew and i am suppose to be getting him tested when they send me some things in the mail. I told them that i do know what to do with andrew. They know all these things about him they dont know about the recient thing with my cat though. Ive been waiting for the papers to come in the mail to take him up to the school for testing. Its hard to keep to positive when he acts up all day long. Speacially when you love your kids so much. It kills me to see him not caring one bit how he effects us all. I can afford school supplies. Thats not the problem. I cannot afford to take my kid to therapy every week. We woke up this morning to him messing with the cats again. Even though he knows hes not allowed to touch them. All of his toys are in the closet and he hasnt rode his bike in 2 weeks now due to what he did to my cat. He constantly does exactly what he want to do unless punishment is really terrible. Im not as strict as a man so i get treated really bad when my husband leaves me with him. And im so sucked into his lying. I feel sorry for him all the time. I dont know why i always feel sorry for him i know he lies and sometimes i jump in when my husband is diciplining him. I try so hard not to do it but sometimes i do. I Talked with one doctor online that wrote the book Just like his Father and she told me love is the most important thing. She said i have to love him with all i have and show him but how can i if he wont stop going against all the rules? I told her im not going to reward the bad behavior. And i have also had a therapist tell me that when he throws a fit just grab him and hug him. Why is it that they want me to reward the bad behavior. He already thinks im to soft on him thats why he cant wait for my husband to go back to work. He knows i love him a lot and thats why i think he ignores my rules. He has accused his dad of some sexual things and i had to report it to the cops. They did an investigation and found it unfounded. Im thinking i need someone that isnt going to feel to sorry for andrew. He munipulates me all the time to get his way. I always have such pity for him. And the reason why hes introuble is because of stuff he does. He totally disreguards our rules unless the punishment is took tough on him. They said that hes got a learning disorder also but the problem is i see him every day. They dont see how smart this kid is. He applies all his smarts to all he wants to. If hes uninterested in what you want him to learn of course he isnt going to be smart in the subject. I think hes very smart when he will comply. To comply with your subject he has to be pumped up about it. You have to get him really excited to learn what you want him to learn. Otherwise he could careless. He just learned to do buttons on shirts and thats because he never cared before. He seen my daughter getting attention and he decided he wanted it also. When he sees someone else other then him getting attention he has to make my life very hard. He cant stand the focus being off of him. I have 3 daughters and non of them like him, I feel terrible about this but the thing is hes so mean that no body wants to play with him. I better stop tying now i could go on all day with this kind of stuff. Im getting some books to help us out with this disorder. Im sure there is helpful tips to effective parenting these kids. Im going to try to get him on medicine for his ADHD also that may mellow him out. Good luck guys and i thank you guys for listening im sure i sound like a baby. I sure do to myself. Thanks again. Good luck everyone. [/QUOTE]
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