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<blockquote data-quote="Tania_port" data-source="post: 265138" data-attributes="member: 7201"><p>Thanks! I dont know for sure about the sexual abuse. I only know andrew told me and i reported it to the cops and they had to examine at the child advacacy and questioned him. It was unfounded. Do you think that these kids like their parents at all? I havent ever really felt like hes liked me. I remember when he was a baby i had to hold him all the time and even then he was unhappy. Doctor said colic and reflex. Now i dont think so. I suspect hes been miserable since he was born. He didnt talk much till he was 2 and it was nothing much that he said. Just the small simple and point. Im guessing im not a doctor that hes born with this terrible defiant ****. Thanks for the warning. I know what to look out for. Did you by any chance notice if you turned your back on him he did worse stuff? Thats what im seeing with him now also. Im not going to keep him out of my sight now. Hes not going to hurt my 3 year old. You suggest locking his door when hes sleeping? Will the medications slow him down atleast a little? I know its not a cure. Maybe a tiny bit more sleep at night i hope for all of us. He wakes up all the time durning the night. I know its not really my parenting. If it was my girls would be messed up. Hes the only 1 i see what problems that are serious. The rest are pretty normal. You heard of play therapy? I also heard about the day therapy treatment. The sliding scale for 4 people is pretty low star. My husbands been working for the phone company for 27 years he makes good money. We dont qualify for much of anything. He makes good money on paper. I dont know if my husband is up for spending all his energy on andrew. I wish i could say yes. I dont think so though. I dont blame him either. I know andrew is hard and i put my nose where it doesnt belong sometimes. I dont think hes going to stay. I pray for guildence to help my son. Cause im lost at what to do. Its way beyond me knowing what to do. I am really confused and thats why i took andrew to that hospital in the beginning. You know they threw me all over the place and no body wants to do anything. I suppose hes just to young for some doctors to deal with. I had to change my pediatrician because she refused to put andrew on medications. She said it was out of her comfort zone. andrews behavior therapist said thats crock. Some kids are 3 when they get on medications. So he said change doctors. Doccument all things also. A new time out program also. How do i keep this plan and spend all my energy on 1 kid when i have 4??I dont only have 1 kid but 2 that live in my home and 2 other girls. I dont think this will work. Im going to try my hardest to follow his orders. Im exhaused though. Andrews been gone off and on since i took him to that hospital. Were happy for the peace but are stressed for when he comes back. I went to get him from his dads and he cried so he got to stay another night. Another night of all night sleep is nice. You sound like your angry star. If you dont want to post you dont gotta. Im new to all this ****. Disorder stuff i mean. He is like an alien. You are right. I thank you for the help. i dont mind critism. I had been with his father for 7 years which was the nasty of all nasty abusers to me.Socialpath. Prior to that, a man that was physically abusive 4 years. I can take it. Been there. You wont hurt my feelings. Im listening to ya. Getting this kiddo some help, hope for a little relief from somewhere. I dont care where it comes from. I bought that book the explose child. My huband says i will like it. He dont like it. I gotta try to defuse the fits before they get huge and blown up i think. Maybe i can distract him from what hes wanting to get mad about. Im going to try. Andrew gets back tomorrow and im taking him to doctor for medications. I will let you guys know whats up tomorrow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tania_port, post: 265138, member: 7201"] Thanks! I dont know for sure about the sexual abuse. I only know andrew told me and i reported it to the cops and they had to examine at the child advacacy and questioned him. It was unfounded. Do you think that these kids like their parents at all? I havent ever really felt like hes liked me. I remember when he was a baby i had to hold him all the time and even then he was unhappy. Doctor said colic and reflex. Now i dont think so. I suspect hes been miserable since he was born. He didnt talk much till he was 2 and it was nothing much that he said. Just the small simple and point. Im guessing im not a doctor that hes born with this terrible defiant ****. Thanks for the warning. I know what to look out for. Did you by any chance notice if you turned your back on him he did worse stuff? Thats what im seeing with him now also. Im not going to keep him out of my sight now. Hes not going to hurt my 3 year old. You suggest locking his door when hes sleeping? Will the medications slow him down atleast a little? I know its not a cure. Maybe a tiny bit more sleep at night i hope for all of us. He wakes up all the time durning the night. I know its not really my parenting. If it was my girls would be messed up. Hes the only 1 i see what problems that are serious. The rest are pretty normal. You heard of play therapy? I also heard about the day therapy treatment. The sliding scale for 4 people is pretty low star. My husbands been working for the phone company for 27 years he makes good money. We dont qualify for much of anything. He makes good money on paper. I dont know if my husband is up for spending all his energy on andrew. I wish i could say yes. I dont think so though. I dont blame him either. I know andrew is hard and i put my nose where it doesnt belong sometimes. I dont think hes going to stay. I pray for guildence to help my son. Cause im lost at what to do. Its way beyond me knowing what to do. I am really confused and thats why i took andrew to that hospital in the beginning. You know they threw me all over the place and no body wants to do anything. I suppose hes just to young for some doctors to deal with. I had to change my pediatrician because she refused to put andrew on medications. She said it was out of her comfort zone. andrews behavior therapist said thats crock. Some kids are 3 when they get on medications. So he said change doctors. Doccument all things also. A new time out program also. How do i keep this plan and spend all my energy on 1 kid when i have 4??I dont only have 1 kid but 2 that live in my home and 2 other girls. I dont think this will work. Im going to try my hardest to follow his orders. Im exhaused though. Andrews been gone off and on since i took him to that hospital. Were happy for the peace but are stressed for when he comes back. I went to get him from his dads and he cried so he got to stay another night. Another night of all night sleep is nice. You sound like your angry star. If you dont want to post you dont gotta. Im new to all this ****. Disorder stuff i mean. He is like an alien. You are right. I thank you for the help. i dont mind critism. I had been with his father for 7 years which was the nasty of all nasty abusers to me.Socialpath. Prior to that, a man that was physically abusive 4 years. I can take it. Been there. You wont hurt my feelings. Im listening to ya. Getting this kiddo some help, hope for a little relief from somewhere. I dont care where it comes from. I bought that book the explose child. My huband says i will like it. He dont like it. I gotta try to defuse the fits before they get huge and blown up i think. Maybe i can distract him from what hes wanting to get mad about. Im going to try. Andrew gets back tomorrow and im taking him to doctor for medications. I will let you guys know whats up tomorrow. [/QUOTE]
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