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<blockquote data-quote="Californiablonde" data-source="post: 584325" data-attributes="member: 2196"><p>Susiestar thank you for all the info, and thank you to the rest of you ladies who have been supporting me through all of this. Unfortunately I did not qualify for that apartment. My credit wasn't good enough. I have never been turned down for an apartment due to bad credit. Some of the places I've lived at before have asked for a higher deposit but never have they turned me down outright. I should have seen it coming with this one. The first thing the apartment manager asked me when I saw the place was how good was my credit. I didn't even want to apply for it after he asked me that question. My mom is the one who encouraged me to apply anyway and wait to see what happened. Now I'm out the $37 application fee. Most places charge around $40 for an application fee these days, so I am going to have to be more selective when I apply from now on. I can't afford to pay that much several times in a row just to get rejected several times in a row. </p><p></p><p>I am hoping and praying the next place is more forgiving. And as far as the studio goes that I was going to apply to, I am going to wait several days and see if I can find another one bedroom instead. My mom is going around today to the area I wish to move and she is going to see if she can find anything else. I would really prefer to have a seperate bedroom. If I don't find anything and I absolutely have to apply to the studio I will, but it will be my last option. The more I thought about it yesterday, the more I decided I would need an extra room so difficult child and I could both watch TV at the same time. She has her own set of shows she watches after school and I do not want to give up my routine of watching my Family Feud and Dr. Phil after work. I know it sounds petty, but I really do look forward to watching my shows at the end of the day. If I had a studio it would be hard for us both to watch two different TV's in the same room. But if we have to then that's what I will do. But in the meantime I am going take one more look and see if I can find a one bedroom.</p><p></p><p>And as far as easy child he has not mentioned moving in with his dad once since Monday. He didn't bring it up at all yesterday, which I hope means that he has accepted it. I may be wrong and he may start in again about it, but for now he hasn't said a word. And my rapid cycling, which was a living hell for weeks, has finally started to go away. Reducing the Paxil was a godsend. I feel much calmer now that my dose has been cut in half. So that is very good news. Emotionally I am feeling much better. I am still anxious about the apartment situation, but my rapid cycling is gone and that's what was bothering me the most. So now onward to the apartment search. I am praying real hard now that I find something fast. I have 16 days to move and counting. Wish me luck cause right now I sure do need it!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Californiablonde, post: 584325, member: 2196"] Susiestar thank you for all the info, and thank you to the rest of you ladies who have been supporting me through all of this. Unfortunately I did not qualify for that apartment. My credit wasn't good enough. I have never been turned down for an apartment due to bad credit. Some of the places I've lived at before have asked for a higher deposit but never have they turned me down outright. I should have seen it coming with this one. The first thing the apartment manager asked me when I saw the place was how good was my credit. I didn't even want to apply for it after he asked me that question. My mom is the one who encouraged me to apply anyway and wait to see what happened. Now I'm out the $37 application fee. Most places charge around $40 for an application fee these days, so I am going to have to be more selective when I apply from now on. I can't afford to pay that much several times in a row just to get rejected several times in a row. I am hoping and praying the next place is more forgiving. And as far as the studio goes that I was going to apply to, I am going to wait several days and see if I can find another one bedroom instead. My mom is going around today to the area I wish to move and she is going to see if she can find anything else. I would really prefer to have a seperate bedroom. If I don't find anything and I absolutely have to apply to the studio I will, but it will be my last option. The more I thought about it yesterday, the more I decided I would need an extra room so difficult child and I could both watch TV at the same time. She has her own set of shows she watches after school and I do not want to give up my routine of watching my Family Feud and Dr. Phil after work. I know it sounds petty, but I really do look forward to watching my shows at the end of the day. If I had a studio it would be hard for us both to watch two different TV's in the same room. But if we have to then that's what I will do. But in the meantime I am going take one more look and see if I can find a one bedroom. And as far as easy child he has not mentioned moving in with his dad once since Monday. He didn't bring it up at all yesterday, which I hope means that he has accepted it. I may be wrong and he may start in again about it, but for now he hasn't said a word. And my rapid cycling, which was a living hell for weeks, has finally started to go away. Reducing the Paxil was a godsend. I feel much calmer now that my dose has been cut in half. So that is very good news. Emotionally I am feeling much better. I am still anxious about the apartment situation, but my rapid cycling is gone and that's what was bothering me the most. So now onward to the apartment search. I am praying real hard now that I find something fast. I have 16 days to move and counting. Wish me luck cause right now I sure do need it! [/QUOTE]
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