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<blockquote data-quote="Tiapet" data-source="post: 581478" data-attributes="member: 455"><p>I'm thankful, for the most part, he doesn't "normally" keep his dirty clothes in there anymore. Once in a while there is but most often they are left in the common bathroom (he shares with the girls). Ms queen however, peeeeewww! HER room stinks! She has dirty clothes mixed with clean clothes on her floor all the time. She's my hoarder so there is everything all over the floor and it's a disgusting disaster in there. Only she knows what's clean and what isn't, sometimes I think. She will take her clothes up and dump them. Refuses to use the dresser or closet she has.</p><p></p><p>I just get really worried and I know it's the PTSD in me from previous histories of CPS calls of years past....like when oldest difficult child was very young and acting out (all unfounded completely and always triggered by ill meaning school or agency people-proven out). I trust no one in that respect. So when anyone, especially in school starts questioning anything I start to circle the wagons that I have (all workers involved and "proving" all that I AM doing) because that's the only way it can ever be headed off at the pass before a call is made and once one IS made....well there is all the proof to get them to go away! </p><p></p><p>I'm just sooooo sick of being put into this mode by people who don't pay attention to anything that SHOULD already be well aware of what is going on. Know what I mean??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiapet, post: 581478, member: 455"] I'm thankful, for the most part, he doesn't "normally" keep his dirty clothes in there anymore. Once in a while there is but most often they are left in the common bathroom (he shares with the girls). Ms queen however, peeeeewww! HER room stinks! She has dirty clothes mixed with clean clothes on her floor all the time. She's my hoarder so there is everything all over the floor and it's a disgusting disaster in there. Only she knows what's clean and what isn't, sometimes I think. She will take her clothes up and dump them. Refuses to use the dresser or closet she has. I just get really worried and I know it's the PTSD in me from previous histories of CPS calls of years past....like when oldest difficult child was very young and acting out (all unfounded completely and always triggered by ill meaning school or agency people-proven out). I trust no one in that respect. So when anyone, especially in school starts questioning anything I start to circle the wagons that I have (all workers involved and "proving" all that I AM doing) because that's the only way it can ever be headed off at the pass before a call is made and once one IS made....well there is all the proof to get them to go away! I'm just sooooo sick of being put into this mode by people who don't pay attention to anything that SHOULD already be well aware of what is going on. Know what I mean?? [/QUOTE]
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